Topic: My first post-op orgasm... (First time update) (Read 11151 times)

Lianne · « **Reply #20 on:** August 27, 2007, 04:43:21 pm »

How do I say this? The penetration of my neo vagina. I'll try to say this in my own experience. The penetration feeling for myself, without the my neo clitorous involved. There is not much pleasure or pain felt inside my neo vagina. It feels like a little numbness, and alot of pressure, is how I would describe it, like putting something where it does not belong. In order for me to feel pleasure, I need to press and rub my clitorous up against my partner to feel stimulated. All pleasure and pain comes from the neo clitorous. Thus, without the pressure or stimulation of the clitorous, There is not much pleasure in penetration itself.

Asianrose · « **Reply #21 on:** August 27, 2007, 11:15:10 pm »

Quote from: Lianne on August 27, 2007, 04:43:21 pm

... The penetration feeling for myself, without the my neo clitorous involved. There is not much pleasure or pain felt inside my neo vagina. It feels like a little numbness, and alot of pressure, is how I would describe it, like putting something where it does not belong. ...

That's just excat the feeling that I could anticipate so far for penetration... Though I could have had penetrative sex earlier, my bf and I decide to wait a bit longer until I feel more comfortable and less tight/pressure down there... Cause if only one side can get pleasure from love-making, the love-making would be always like missing something...

MelissaW · « **Reply #22 on:** August 27, 2007, 11:50:16 pm »

I have been able to orgasm for the last 5 months using a vibrator, but have yet to have penerative sex. I have been seeing my bf for a few weeks now, but we haven't slept together as yet.

My orgasms are certainly better than anything I have experienced previously.

Lianne · « **Reply #23 on:** August 27, 2007, 11:59:57 pm »

I tried my best to describe it. But if I may. I did say that "there's no pleasure in penetration itself." However, being able to finally be intimate the I've always imagined or fantasized is where the pleasure comes from. It's a mental thing. The brain says " Yes, this is how it should have always been." And with doctors being able to add the added benefit of sensation to the neo clit, It's a win, win, situation for most.

Asianrose · « **Reply #24 on:** September 26, 2007, 03:03:11 am »

Quote from: Asianrose on July 31, 2007, 01:47:45 am

Day 124, first time swimming/bikini
Day 133, first time beach volleyball (first time in my life too)

:-)

Finally...

Day 188, first time penetrative love-making... feel more complete femal now... ;-)

melissa90299 · « **Reply #25 on:** October 01, 2007, 11:35:13 am »

ten weeks now, I had my first orgasm six weeks out, clitorally with a vibrator.

I haven't been with a partner yet. After many years and more partners than I would admit to, I don't think I have ever had sex and not enjoyed it. The thought of having sex now with a partner is almost overwhelming to me, I don;t think I will be disappointed but I will soon find out, as soon as I decide to say yes.

tinkerbell · « **Reply #26 on:** October 01, 2007, 07:17:22 pm »

Quote from: melissa90299 on October 01, 2007, 11:35:13 am

ten weeks now, I had my first orgasm six weeks out, clitorally with a vibrator.

I haven't been with a partner yet. After many years and more partners than I would admit to, I don't think I have ever had sex and not enjoyed it. The thought of having sex now with a partner is almost overwhelming to me, I don;t think I will be disappointed but I will soon find out, as soon as I decide to say yes.

Well, well, well, nice to see you! you've been busy, haven't you?

Quote from: melissa90299 on October 01, 2007, 11:35:13 am

I don;t think I will be disappointed

No, you won't.

tink

Asianrose · « **Reply #27 on:** October 06, 2007, 04:52:50 am »

Just got my totally new passport in hand yesterday!!! (Name changed and Gender corrected about one month ago) Again, very satisfied with the services of Canadian federal goverment... The lady at the passport office was very professinal and nice... everything just went through so "normal"...

Anyway, now I'm looking forward to my first post-op oversea voyage (3 weeks vacation)... leaving for Paris next week with my beloved bf, and it'll also be my first time to meet his family in France... excited while a bit nervous though... just cant wait...

Posted on: October 05, 2007, 12:33:40 AM

Just met Dr.Brassard this afternoon for my regular followup, and I was told I'd been totally healed... He gave me an A+

, and now I'm allowed to do anything as a normal woman... The next followup will be my first anniversary, which sounds a bit far away... Anyway, I'm still going on counting the days...

tinkerbell · « **Reply #28 on:** October 08, 2007, 08:02:27 pm »

Quote from: Rommie on October 08, 2007, 07:57:33 pm

Hi AR,

Thank you soooo much for this thread. I'm a few days into my 6th week and you said so many things that I felt or could relate with.

Congrats on your successful surgery, the passport, and the A+.

Phew! You scared me there for a sec, Rommie.

When I saw your name under this thread, I said to myself "no way, so soon?" Okay, now I know what you really wanted to say.

tink

tinkerbell · « **Reply #29 on:** October 09, 2007, 11:19:32 pm »

Quote from: Rommie on October 09, 2007, 07:24:37 am

lol!

No, this is more like me. . .

That, sometimes, can be fun as well... ball bouncing! I used to play volleyball as a child.

tink

Asianrose · « **Reply #30 on:** October 11, 2007, 04:56:46 pm »

Quote from: Rommie on October 08, 2007, 07:57:33 pm

Hi AR,

Thank you soooo much for this thread. I'm a few days into my 6th week and you said so many things that I felt or could relate with.

Congrats on your successful surgery, the passport, and the A+.

Hi Rommie,

Thanks for the congrats. I'm so happy that my posts could be a bit helpful for you, and it's really my pleasure to share my own expereince here on Susan as the other sisters have done... and I'm pround to do a bit my contribution to this website community...

Happy to know your SRS also went very well, and I send you the best wishes and courage for the fast recovery and healing ...

AR

PS. Tomorrow will be my first time post-op oversea voyage... Just cant wait to visit Paris...

cindybc · « **Reply #31 on:** October 14, 2007, 09:45:21 am »

Hi all, and Tink,

I just found this thread only tonight and I been here nearly a month now. I have been post opp for 4 years now. It feels kind of strange or awkward talking about this kind of stuff with other people, "Cindy blushes." But hells bells, yes the orgasms are way more intense then before, just using a vibrator at this time. My mate is a pre-opp and basically it will be a little while longer before she gets her SRS and she is really not interested in having sex until after she has had her surgery. So I really don't have any idea what having sex with another is like yet...well....as a female that is. That is going to be all news to me. Something else I have never given though to and that is,.... well..... after she gets the surgery, does that make us officially lesbians? now that's something else that is new to me also. I guess that makes me a virgin as well... well.... in the female role that is.

Any other TS lesbians in this thread?

Cindy

katia · « **Reply #32 on:** October 15, 2007, 03:27:30 am »

Quote from: cindybc on October 14, 2007, 09:45:21 am

Any other TS lesbians in this thread?

Cindy

i've been post op for almost two months now. i always thought of myself as a lesbian, yet i don't think my first post-op O will be with a woman >

i'm changing; i can't even recognize myself now. the strange thing is that my so (also post op) is going through the same changes, so we end up talking about guys. ha ha ha ha ha life is not as simple as it seems >sigh<

cindybc · « **Reply #33 on:** October 15, 2007, 03:53:11 am »

Hi Katia

Well I would not want to go back to the simpler days, even though some of it was really fun. In those simpler days, it would have been much harder to transition if at all. Well Christine Jorgensen was during those simpler times when I was in my early teens . Also Canary Conn did her transitioning in the 60's and I was living in a Hippie commune back in 62, They thought I was a girl and took me in as a girl. I never bothered trying to dissuade them of that notion. I had my hair down to my backside and peach fuzz on my face, I still got long hair which is down to mid back. I even went out with a boy for a time in the comune, actually my first flame but fortunately, it never got to the point of letting him put his shoes under my bed.

Cindy

tinkerbell · « **Reply #34 on:** October 16, 2007, 07:38:04 pm »

Hey Katia, try Costco! >

tink

melissa90299 · « **Reply #35 on:** October 19, 2007, 08:22:04 am »

Quote from: Tink on October 16, 2007, 07:38:04 pm

Hey Katia, try Costco! >

tink

.

LOL

Well, I decided to cool it as far as rushing into sex goes. I am now three months out and last night, I had my first really intense orgasm. It was quite enjoyable and the neighbors may have enjoyed it too.

For now, I am happy just pleasuring myself. I imagine I have a lot to look forward to!

My AA sponsor and I have been talking about sex and guys a lot lately, she is discouraging me from jumping into giving it up too fast and then feeling used. I mentioned that I didn't really like guys anyway. She said something to the effect that well you could have fooled me as you talk about all the guys pursuing you all the time.

I think some of us were in denial when we had the old parts and could not have a normal relationship with men. Now we can!

Kiana · « **Reply #36 on:** October 29, 2007, 09:00:55 pm »

Hi everyone and it is good to hear AsianRose you are so happy with your srs and everything! Can anyone answer my question like for example:

I am going to get a orchiectomy next month - bilateral. and I want to know if I will have any sexual feelings at all. I currently ta spiro,estradoil and progesterone every day and before I have been on injections for nine years. I donnot hardly ever get an erection and that is GREAT! I love it. But, my penis (only my soft penis) still has feelings. The question is, will I have any sexual feelings at all? and will my penis be just like one of my fingers of my hand? I donnot understand. Can someone please help me with this infomration? Advance thank you very much for you helping me with infomration and have a great day!

katia · « **Reply #37 on:** November 03, 2007, 02:07:20 am »

it's happened >

with the guy i talked about on my "strange desires" thread. life gives you lots of surprises, doesnt it?. i never thought i'd experience my first post-op orgasm with a guy but i did and i'm not sorry

Chris · « **Reply #38 on:** November 03, 2007, 03:38:40 am »

Quote from: Katia on November 03, 2007, 02:07:20 am

it's happened > with the guy i talked about on my "strange desires" thread. life gives you lots of surprises, doesnt it?. i never thought i'd experience my first post-op orgasm with a guy but i did and i'm not sorry

u gonna tell us about it? >

tinkerbell · « **Reply #39 on:** November 04, 2007, 05:05:16 am »

Quote from: Katia on November 03, 2007, 02:07:20 am

it's happened > with the guy i talked about on my "strange desires" thread. life gives you lots of surprises, doesnt it?. i never thought i'd experience my first post-op orgasm with a guy but i did and i'm not sorry

Oh boy..ROFL....

. Well, so what else? >

I mean, you don't have to tell us, for some of us tend to keep private experiences very private...

but it would be nice to know

tink

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