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[Total Members Voted:]

Mother (also stepmother)

4 (15.4%)

Father (also stepfather)

4 (15.4%)

Mentor

2 (7.7%)

Aunt

0 (0%)

Uncle

3 (11.5%)

Adopted parent

0 (0%)

Grandfather

0 (0%)

Grandmother

0 (0%)

I dont Identify with my family

6 (23.1%)

sister (s)

3 (11.5%)

brother (s)

2 (7.7%)

daughter (s)

2 (7.7%)

son (s)

0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 11

[Ken/Kendra]

Wondering how androgynes feel parental and relative influence and inspiration.

[Tay]

I do not identify with my family.

[Ken/Kendra]

Whoops forgot to add that. Added that as an option.

[Pica Pica]

I said; Mother, Mentor and Uncle. I would have put sister too.

My mum is like me in that she is essentially an inward person. She takes everything in and stores it and files it somewhere inside of her. People think she is stupid but she isn't. She is unlike me in that once it goes in it stays in, I let rather a lot out again. I also don't think I'm stupid, but that is because mum has worked hard at telling me I'm not.

For mentor, I don't know if this means something formal or whether it means your own personal Mr Mayagi. I have a mr mayagi, i do not know what he does for a living, but he seems to make a living going around troubleshooting for academics. He's clever and funny, and has travelled the world and is still an optimist. He is also a great teller of anecdotes - I want to be like him.

And my Uncle. He used to be in a punk band, now he owns a posh-ish house with a goat in it and another in the south of france. asically he lived to laugh - and so I envy him that and identify with the sentiment, even if I can be quite grim sometimes.


I was actually going to make a post about my sister. We are very close. we share our own culture in many ways that no one else understands. I'm beginning to wonder whether she's an androgyne but doesn't know it.
Anyway, here is us together...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wEa01ke48U
	LQ | HQ

[Ken/Kendra]

ok added sisters and brothers

[Pica Pica]

cheers

[Doc]

My mom, who has been a cross-dresser as long as I've known her, and says she's never really felt like a woman even though she identifies as one.

My uncle, who is fantasitically talented and has dedicated himself to being relatively idle and doing modest amounts of pro-social volunteer work, and who appears in minor roles in films from time to time. He recently exploded on Chinese television.

A mentor, an old man I knew as a kid, who was for me an ideal masculine role model, honourable and courageous and free.

[tinkerbell]

I loved the video, Pica.  You guys are really cute, both of you.  I'm very happy to know you have such a wonderful relationship with your sister.

tink

[Ken/Kendra]

Added daughters and sons

[Pica Pica]

Helped my sister have a day out to a theme park today - my sister said that she was 'an honoury lad' today because they wanted to go on the white-knuckle rides. Tomorrow she's going shopping one of the girls. Its nice to see.

[Ken/Kendra]

I identify with my mother for part of me, though my father for other things. My sisters, especially my eldest one has influenced me. Two of my brothers I identify with most. We are the 3 younger male born siblings.

[no_id]

At first I voted "I do not identify with my family". However, I added "Sister(s)" to my vote after some moderate thinking since I do identify with my oldest sister in one aspect: we are both the black sheep of the family, and occasionally seem to have a little competition as to who will carry the title for an undetermined amount of time. Both her and I are unable to 'sit still' for a long time, and have no trouble throwing our life around. I believe that is what connects us, and what we love about each other: knowing that we're not the only one 'screwing up'