hi for what its worth i like the name Rebecca, its a good name but at the end of the day its just a name. i spent all my childhood being called smod by everyone at school and outside it and by the end of it found it hard to realise someone was talking to me when they used my real name. still find it strange when they do as very few people actully use your name in day to day life. i dont really like mine (scott) but have a name that you can not really shorten or alter so had to come up with another one which was the female name that my mum was gonig to use if i was a girl (kerri), so i thought it was apt also i felt it suited me. this as been great online though now i come to move away from presenting as female its hard to get things changed over to represent how i feel now. also as it sounds better with the female part infront of the male it is a female name not a male one or inbetween (kerri scott) at this point i gave up, my partner is trying to get me to use scotty but then i sound like a dog. so i dont know what else to do.
