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[Total Members Voted:]

Agender (neither) , Neutrois, Nullgender

8 (12.3%)

Bigender (both separate)

11 (16.9%)

Ambigender (both merged), Interdresser, Mixed Gender

24 (36.9%)

Fluid (can change, cyclical-gender)

4 (6.2%)

Third Gender (outside all gender, exo-gender, extra-gender,)

2 (3.1%)

I am my own Gender (auto-gender).

5 (7.7%)

I dont want to be boxed in by labels.

4 (6.2%)

No choice at this time, Undecided

5 (7.7%)

None of the above (I will make a post explaining why)

2 (3.1%)

Total Members Voted: 31

[Emerald]

'None of the above'
I am a gender transcendent Androgyne.
Well, let's see if I can explain that!
The English language seems rather inadequate in this area....

A gender transcendent is above gender, outside of gender, surpassing gender, beyond ordinary limits of gender, exceeding gender. Mentally, a transcendent Androgyne is neither male nor female... and yet both.

Here's an analogy:
A gender transcendent Androgyne can be described in the way that mixing yellow and blue creates green... and green is a color that is neither yellow or blue - and yet it is both! In the same way hydrogen and oxygen combine to make water - and water is something quite different from its components!

More accurately perhaps, a gender transcendent Androgyne is the wholeness of gender in an individual. Undivided, never cleaved by a gender knife, a transcendent Androgyne is not two genders in one body - certainly not one gender as most people are! - but an undivided state of being. It is the original spiritual state of oneness that existed before humanity was separated into two genders.

Both, and yet neither.
My own gender, and yet outside of all gender.
I am of the essence that existed before 'gender' was created.

-Emerald 

ps-
I'd like to invite those who participated in this poll to cast your vote in the 'All inclusive gender poll' also. Just click below. Thanks!
New! All inclusive poll - What is your gender ID?
http://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=11945.0

[Casey]

Oh my word. Is that why I've been having so much trouble trying to "quantify" my gender? Intergendered works but that still misses the mark somehow. Like "a blend of genders" still doesn't capture it. I have a gender, but it's just sort of like (I know, I know) a Big Ball Of Gender thing, like some aliens are a Big Ball Of Light. I don't have sides, and even calling it parts feels wrong sometimes. Like in my old avatar, I'm just a swirling mass of gender.

Wow, have I been confusing "essence" with "gender"? I've been saying I have a gender because there's something inside me. But that's an essence, isn't it? My essence just is, it isn't this or that. I may not have said it here, or anywhere else for that matter, but I've felt for a while like I *am* the gender continuum, that I exist all over it. But at the same time I'm not really there, either. I just am. Yeah, I know, I'm not making sense here. But it's making perfect sense in my head.

Oh. My. God. All that potential, all that not worrying about finding a balance point and just honestly experiencing things as I experience them. All that "it's all good". I won't find my answer "inside" gender, will I? I'm gender transcendant.

[Jet]

'None of the above'
I am a gender transcendent Androgyne.
Well, let's see if I can explain that!
The English language seems rather inadequate in this area....

A gender transcendent is above gender, outside of gender, surpassing gender, beyond ordinary limits of gender, exceeding gender. Mentally, a transcendent Androgyne is neither male nor female... and yet both.

Here's an analogy:
A gender transcendent Androgyne can be described in the way that mixing yellow and blue creates green... and green is a color that is neither yellow or blue - and yet it is both! In the same way hydrogen and oxygen combine to make water - and water is something quite different from its components!

More accurately perhaps, a gender transcendent Androgyne is the wholeness of gender in an individual. Undivided, never cleaved by a gender knife, a transcendent Androgyne is not two genders in one body - certainly not one gender as most people are! - but an undivided state of being. It is the original spiritual state of oneness that existed before humanity was separated into two genders.

Both, and yet neither.
My own gender, and yet outside of all gender.
I am of the essence that existed before 'gender' was created.

-Emerald 

I think that sums me up

[Nik]

I am Bi-gendered, definitely. Two separate gender personalities, and they do not get along.

Never boring in my head.

[Lucy]

I have chosen not decided at this time. This is for many reasons. I feel like may be I am Androgyne because I look like a male but feel there is a very strong female presents. On there other hand I dont realy feel that there is a Male side to me when quite evedently there is because i have lived that way for 30 years.

Do you understand me? If so please can you explain it to me. LOL

[ChildOfTheLight]

So far I'm the only person to vote "fluid."

It may be a case of different names for the same thing, because others have said something like what I feel.  Sometimes I feel primarily (sometimes even completely) male inside, and sometimes I feel primarily (sometimes even completely) female inside, and sometimes I feel like both at once (which is my preferred state.)  But I'm always me.  Who I am when I'm feeling primarily feminine isn't fundamentally different from who I am when I'm feeling primarily masculine.

[Sue]

Oh Emerald:
    gender transcendent Androgyne
That is beautiful.

I am intergendered, both blended. Like Emeral's blue and yellow blended into green, which I find to be a very appropriate analogy: Often a color that I consider to be green is blue to someone else.

-- Sue

[Pica Pica]

I would say I am male through body, genderless through social role and female in my priorities and typical brain patterns.

Which would make me a very socially adept female had I been born that way, a fairly poor socially adept male...puts me neutois I decided...though the phrase neutrois is far too vanilla for what I feel.

[Nando]

I have no idea what my gender identity is now. I think I am a tomgirl. Would that count as Ambigender? Agender? Or Third Gender?

[Rebis]

I went with Neutrois.  Null Gender.

   Sometimes I do feel like I'd like to delete my physical male gender markers, but overall, I'm pretty happy with who or what I am.

   Pica Pica described how I am pretty well. I think my attributes would have made me a successful female if I'd been born with that body.

   I feel feminine, but not masculine inside. Feminine, but not like a woman trapped in a male body. I think it feels like being a child when gender means nothing to you and you just are. Is that null gender?

   I'll admit I was seduced by Emerald's description, and it is possible that is me, but I have a tendency to become whatever it is Emerald describes so I am trying to not do that in this case. 
   Emerald has become my Goddess, Saint, Oracle, and Mother.     and Angel. ( no pressure on you to live up to any of those things, Em )

[no_id]

At this point in time, I'm not really able to make up my mind. After all, being a newbie and all that I'm still poking around in the 'grey' area, connecting the dots, and getting my TG-ABC's down  . However, Neutrois and Fluid seem to have been unconsciously picked as the current read-up material. 

[Pica Pica]

   I feel feminine, but not masculine inside. Feminine, but not like a woman trapped in a male body. I think it feels like being a child when gender means nothing to you and you just are.

Housey Housey!

That's the description, as genderless as a child. (Though not asexual.)

Oh - and No-Id, you do tend to become what you read.

[no_id]

Oh - and No-Id, you do tend to become what you read.

Then I shall bring out a stack of comicbooks and start reading!
No, but all sillyness to the side: there is either a click or there isn't. 

[Rebis]

Oh - and No-Id, you do tend to become what you read.

Then I shall bring out a stack of comicbooks and start reading!
No, but all sillyness to the side: there is either a click or there isn't. 

maybe you should stay away from the New Testament. We wouldn't want to see you crucified.

[no_id]

Oh - and No-Id, you do tend to become what you read.

Then I shall bring out a stack of comicbooks and start reading!
No, but all sillyness to the side: there is either a click or there isn't. 

maybe you should stay away from the New Testament. We wouldn't want to see you crucified.

Ha! 
At least I'd have some followers?

[Pica Pica]

Yeah, but everyone would be going on forever about how like your dad you are.

[no_id]

Yeah, but everyone would be going on forever about how like your dad you are.

  Ouch. Alright. Scratch the New Testament. lol.

[JodieBlonde]

OIC.....

The second answer is "Bi-gender"...and I thought it said "Big-Ender"...lol!

<the aforementioned was brought to you by a blonde moment>

[Rebis]

Hi,

   I just changed from Neutrois to undecided.

   For the last week, I haven't wanted to be neutered. I'm not happy about the way I look, but it's not bothering me.  I have no idea of what's going on now.

[Thundra]

You forgot genderf***.  It is a real, vital movement on the west coast, and is more political than practical. Most of the queer kids here practice it. I know that the name does not fit the guidelines for this forum, but there it is.