this is a message i received from a guy in the magical world of the internets:
"That's awesome!! Definitely into datin or something regular fun with ftm like you. Definitely know how to treat u like a dude but def have fun gettin it in sometimes
Yeah, we can hang out. Let me know when's good"
what in the holy.....this is weird. first, i have never talked to this guy, nor have i ever seen him and I'll go off on a tangent to educate other people though this is probably obvious. when someone writes you a message/IM/text/talk to you in person and the first sentence out of their mouths is something about you being trans. especially if the next sentence has an obvious sex reference...this guy has to be a creeper right? it can't be just me thinking this. maybe he thought he was innocently flirting and going by the high amounts of exclamation marks he used I'd say he was pretty elated to see my profile....and that I'm trans
(not that i want people to think it's weird, bad or be repulsed but why was he so freakin excited?) but he worded it so weird. i don't know why he was talking in a past tense as if i messaged him first because i obviously didn't. who does that?
i don't know what he meant by "regular ftm like you." I've never been referred to directly as an ftm, it's always him, he, by my actual name if we've actually talked for a lil while, or just as a guy. that's just...not sitting right. and even more so the "def have fun gettin it in sometimes." wha what?! my first guess as to what he's talking about here is also not sitting right. it's like dude! i don't even know you and your already asking for THAT?! and I'm guessing, because I'm trans?
does this guy seem fetishy to anyone else? i mean it's awesome that someone would still be interested in you despite
you being trans but because
people really need to be educated on how to talk to us.