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Title: Tucking genitals
Post by: diana_ts2008 on July 28, 2008, 05:07:34 PM
I need your help to know what is the best technique for tucking my genitals to hide them in order to be able to dress women's tight pants, and move freely in the streets.

regards

Diana
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: umop ap!sdn on July 28, 2008, 08:17:18 PM
I've found tight underwear to be somewhat helpful (women's, and in the next size smaller than what I would otherwise wear) but unfortunately, really tight fitting pants are impossible to get away with before surgery.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: gothique11 on July 28, 2008, 08:28:47 PM
It depends how big/small you are down there, but beside using tight underwear (or duck tape -- ouch! but I've heard of people using it, I don't recommened it although) and pushing things in and under, you can try a feminine pad (Ultra thin, regular size). It does two things: Makes the area looks smoother; and the padding gives extra holding power. Oh, it also soaks up moister, preventing heat rashes since it can get hot down there.

The pad method is used by people really wanting things into place (and it's simple and easy to do, takes two seconds before you go out), and not to move out of place; however, a lot of people are squeamish about wearing or even buying pads at the store. I say, hey, if you're buying pads at the store at least it gives you more cred and you get to feel what other girls have to do. Ultra thin is all you need, as the thicker ones won't do the trick at well, long ones can work, but they can be uncomfy, and short ones can be too small. Uber, thin, thin ones... almost like paper, don't work work at all. Just go to the store and find Always ultra thin (wings is up to you, but they make the pad stay in place better).

And now for a really bad joke I invented one day:

Q: What do you get when you combine Red Bull and a Napkin?

A: Always with wings!

Hahaha! Okay, time for this ADD girl to leave... *runs and hides, but on the way is distracted by something shiny... oooh! Configures another joke in her head... . laughs out loud, people stare, but she forgot the new joke already. See's pitchforks, runs and hides again. Shiny...*

--natalie  :P
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 28, 2008, 08:41:38 PM
Gaffs work well, but they are not as cheap as pads.  You can find them on-line at most cross dressing web sites.

and Natalie, that was really bad.  I can't wait to tell BFF, she'll die laughing
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Rebecca Liz on July 29, 2008, 04:22:57 PM
I found this explanation on another forum. Hopefully, it'll help.

Stand with your feet apart about two feet, balance a bend forward to look... (once you master the technique, 2' is no longer required, nor is looking). Just above your penis establish a visual line where your scrotum meets your groin. Your scrotum extends either side of your penis. Just below that visual line you established inside and at the top of the scrotum is the space where your testicles dropped through (I believe it's called the inquinal canal). Gently cup them and let them find their own way as you push gently.

Please be careful doing this, as forcing them or doing it wrong can hurt very badly, or actually cause damage (as can becoming aroused while in this state.)

Yes, there are gaffs and tape, etc. I never tried the tape (ouch!) and I was never satisfied with gaffs. Just tuck it up there really well, put on some too tight panties (or hose if you prefer, but I like the non-stretch cotton panties), and enjoy the tight pants!! I wear them far too often, and never show.

Now, until you've been on hormones for awhile, you will likely (unless you're lucky) have issues with the boys falling back out periodically. Just excuse yourself to the bathroom and whip them back into shape. After awhile, it becomes 2nd nature, and you don't think about it anymore. Having said that, I still chose a bathing suit with a little skirt attached, as tucking just wasn't working in a bikini (because of the spandex material.) Best of luck!
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Annwyn on October 20, 2008, 02:13:24 PM
Gaffs... anyone know the best to buy?  With all these fraud >-bleeped-<sites out there you never know what is legit or not.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 20, 2008, 05:07:25 PM
I have some quality gaffs that I got from Suddenly Fem.  They work very well and I was using them when I was delivering appliances.  Now I use a padded panty girdle,  and have no problems.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Shellygurl on October 29, 2008, 02:27:20 AM
Quote from: Rebecca Liz on July 29, 2008, 04:22:57 PM
I found this explanation on another forum. Hopefully, it'll help.

Stand with your feet apart about two feet, balance a bend forward to look... (once you master the technique, 2' is no longer required, nor is looking). Just above your penis establish a visual line where your scrotum meets your groin. Your scrotum extends either side of your penis. Just below that visual line you established inside and at the top of the scrotum is the space where your testicles dropped through (I believe it's called the inquinal canal). Gently cup them and let them find their own way as you push gently.

Please be careful doing this, as forcing them or doing it wrong can hurt very badly, or actually cause damage (as can becoming aroused while in this state.)

Yes, there are gaffs and tape, etc. I never tried the tape (ouch!) and I was never satisfied with gaffs. Just tuck it up there really well, put on some too tight panties (or hose if you prefer, but I like the non-stretch cotton panties), and enjoy the tight pants!! I wear them far too often, and never show.

Now, until you've been on hormones for awhile, you will likely (unless you're lucky) have issues with the boys falling back out periodically. Just excuse yourself to the bathroom and whip them back into shape. After awhile, it becomes 2nd nature, and you don't think about it anymore. Having said that, I still chose a bathing suit with a little skirt attached, as tucking just wasn't working in a bikini (because of the spandex material.) Best of luck!

I find that this is the best method. There have been suggestions that this method is accomplished easier if one in lying down at the time those boys are deposited. As one grows accustomed to hidding the "boys" it can be done very quickly and painlessly.

Just a note I tried this one evening and at home and fooled my wife. She was quite entertained. No she does not know about me yet but it was fun nevertheless appearing before her without the fellows hanging around.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on October 30, 2008, 01:35:13 PM
I use a gaff, it works pretty good but some control tops and the gaff are what I use in jeans
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: ColleenW on October 31, 2008, 08:31:32 AM
Diana -

If you go the Wiki on this site you'll find an explanation of how to tuck. As has been mentioned be gentle and be persistent. It might be uncomfortable for a while but you'll soon get used to it. I'm tucked almost all the time now, only letting the testicles down when I shower. BTW I use tape and have no problems as long as the penis and scrotum are well shaved.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: sd on October 31, 2008, 12:48:34 PM
Quote from: Kiera on October 31, 2008, 08:49:45 AM
Never could comprehend other girlfriends problem with this, it is just that I was never greatly endowed in the first place? Aside from a good 6 months HRT? Two pairs of one size too small underwear (preferably non stretch) always seem to work for me . . .
Some people build muscles in that area making the cavities a bit smaller than for other people.
Some people also have larger objects to hide.

It was hard for me to even get them to go in, much less stay there. If I am moving about they will not stay long even with tape and too small panties, and forget doing much lifting or bending.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on October 31, 2008, 02:13:31 PM
I should have elaborated more, I do use some help to handle the tucking part, the underside end of my penis is pierced, has been for years now, I wear a strait barbell with fairly large ends, I also use a large anal plug, are ya following me yet? with a clean shave and 3 inch wide strips of medical tape I push my testies inside and hold everything in place with the tape, I have a small hole driled in the flang of the plug, I unscrew the end of the barebell push it trough the hole, pop in the plug and I'm tucked, I slide on my gaff and thats it, In this state I not only resemble a femine outline I funtion that way as well, now I wouldn't run out and get your stuff pierced but thats whats works for me. Pictures and assembly video available upon request LOL ;)
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: sd on October 31, 2008, 09:12:59 PM
Not to sound strange, but I would like to see that video. LOL


I am curious why you need the gaf at that point?
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: tgirljuliewilson on November 01, 2008, 05:30:56 AM
See this discussion: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,19846.msg150248.html#msg150248
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Rachael on November 01, 2008, 05:35:17 AM
hrm, i bought a gaff once... and it sucked utterly... it was absolutely useless, and was basically a male thong.... its since gone in the bin... was nowhere near tight enough and was the smallest they had!

Tbh, i have no problem wearing really tight pants... one way? stuff the super tight knickers, just wear a normal pairl, and squeeze yourself in to the really tight pants... most are really quite um, sturdy? i've never once had anyone notice anything untoward... the crotch of the trousers acts as its own tucking tool...
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on November 03, 2008, 07:25:47 AM
Quote from: Leslie Ann on October 31, 2008, 09:12:59 PM
Not to sound strange, but I would like to see that video. LOL


I am curious why you need the gaf at that point?
I have to shoot it, I will probably set it up this next week :) PM me your email and I'll send ya link when it's ready

I still need the gaff to hold everything in place while in motion i.e. walking, jogging just normal stuff keeps it well hid, I suppose a small pair of panties would work as well
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Rachael on November 03, 2008, 12:16:55 PM
im afraid to say that the whole prince albert/buttplug combination while totally ingenious, is a little bit disturbing in my eyes... but thats just me...
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Sarah Louise on November 03, 2008, 12:30:30 PM
I don't think it would be appropriate to post any video on that subject.  Also we should be sensitive about how much description we give about this.


Sarah L.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: joannatsf on November 03, 2008, 01:21:53 PM
I seem to be the only one that uses them bur dance belts work quiet well for me.  Male ballet dancers or really anyone that doesn't want to get the stuff crunched between their thighs!  It's a heavy duty lycra spandex thong.  You can either push it up front to display the basket or push it back and inside.  You can buy them at dance wear stores or on line.  Capezio makes a good one as does Harmonie.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Just Mandy on November 03, 2008, 01:30:38 PM
QuoteI should have elaborated more, I do use some help to handle the tucking part, the underside end of my penis is pierced, has been for years now, I wear a strait barbell with fairly large ends, I also use a large anal plug, are ya following me yet? with a clean shave and 3 inch wide strips of medical tape I push my testies inside and hold everything in place with the tape, I have a small hole driled in the flang of the plug, I unscrew the end of the barebell push it trough the hole, pop in the plug and I'm tucked, I slide on my gaff and thats it, In this state I not only resemble a femine outline I funtion that way as well, now I wouldn't run out and get your stuff pierced but thats whats works for me. Pictures and assembly video available upon request LOL Wink

Let me be the first to say:

OUCH!

LOL... I'm glad it works for you Cyndi :)

Amanda
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: sd on November 03, 2008, 01:30:52 PM
Quote from: Cyndigurl45 on November 03, 2008, 07:25:47 AM
I have to shoot it, I will probably set it up this next week :) PM me your email and I'll send ya link when it's ready

I still need the gaff to hold everything in place while in motion i.e. walking, jogging just normal stuff keeps it well hid, I suppose a small pair of panties would work as well

I was joking (calling your bluff I guess).
I had heard of that method before but never knew anyone used it, it just seems a bit extreme.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on November 03, 2008, 01:34:00 PM
Quote from: Sarah Louise on November 03, 2008, 12:30:30 PM
I don't think it would be appropriate to post any video on that subject.  Also we should be sensitive about how much description we give about this.


Sarah L.
Sorry if I was a bit to graphic, it's difficult not to be given the subject, and rest assured I have no intent of posting the video/pictures here. However, I will make a link available to those that request it privately in an email.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Just Mandy on November 03, 2008, 01:37:59 PM
QuoteI had heard of that method before but never knew anyone used it, it just seems a bit extreme.

In theory it sounds like it would work pretty well... but again... OUCH :) And I'm not sure I'm
big enough to reach... no... I'm certain I'm not. :)

Amanda

Posted on: November 03, 2008, 02:34:26 pm
QuoteSorry if I was a bit to graphic, it's difficult not to be given the subject, and rest assured I have no intent of posting the video/pictures here. However, I will make a link available to those that request it privately in an email.

I'd imagine this is somewhat like a bad wreck at a racetrack... no one admits they want to see it but we
all secretly do... LOL.. but I'll pass.. my imagination is fine for this one :)

And I don't think it was too graphic, for some people it might be the perfect method.

Amanda
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on November 03, 2008, 01:41:03 PM
And then there are days like today where nothing fits quite right :embarrassed:
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Maddie Secutura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:35 PM
Anyone have issues with them bulging outward from the abdominal wall?
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: ColleenW on November 03, 2008, 08:21:34 PM
Quote from: Claire de Lune on November 03, 2008, 01:21:53 PM
I seem to be the only one that uses them bur dance belts work quiet well for me.  Male ballet dancers or really anyone that doesn't want to get the stuff crunched between their thighs!  It's a heavy duty lycra spandex thong.  You can either push it up front to display the basket or push it back and inside.  You can buy them at dance wear stores or on line.  Capezio makes a good one as does Harmonie.

I've tried dance belts in the past and they haven't worked for me. There fine if you want to pull everything forward, but that still leaves a bulge I don't like. When I try to push everything back the narrow strap at the back doesn't hold and I'm constantly falling out.

Posted on: November 03, 2008, 09:20:05 pm
Quote from: Maddie Suzumiya on November 03, 2008, 04:35:35 PM
Anyone have issues with them bulging outward from the abdominal wall?

My testicles bulge a little in the front but when I'm fully tucked the bulge isn't enough to notice even under tight clothes.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Just Mandy on November 04, 2008, 09:21:19 AM
QuoteAnyone have issues with them bulging outward from the abdominal wall?

You mean the hamster with his cheeks stuffed full look? I sure do. I think it must be a combination
of fat and maybe some slight anatomical  differences in us. Rightly and lefty have always easily
slipped home but there has always been a bulge. I have very little padding on my abdoman or pubic
area and even after the shrinkage that HRT brings righty and lefty still bulge out. It's not as bad as
pre-HRT but still there. The good thing, at least from a tucking stand-point is, that "HE" is also smaller
and never firm so it's easy to hide.

Amanda

Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 04, 2008, 11:11:32 PM
With 5 months HRT, my hamster's cheeks are not so full any more.  Thank the Goddess.

And with the right clothes there nothing to see anyway.  As far as Mr. Twinkie is concern that's an inny.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Rachael on November 07, 2008, 07:27:22 AM
The fatness of the crotch is a female thing... its another area women gain weight in... so it can bulge a little on its own.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on November 12, 2008, 12:09:47 PM
As promised the video is done, nothing fancy, shot it with my phone LOL. Email me and I will send a private link.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: gina on November 12, 2008, 12:43:36 PM
Before HRT I found it a little hard to tuck also.... tried: duct tape, bands, tight undies ect, and other silly homemade things..  :D  Believe it or not the best then (pre HRT) that worked was duct tape ! but ouch !

Now the best I found out is like it was mentioned earlier in this thread... I tuck them in (much smaller now) and also have additional loose flesh (mound) there very similar to mons pubis like  a  female has and they fit into very easily and stay in place with a pad in place in my panties and I have no problem at all.   :)

gina
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Cyndigurl45 on November 12, 2008, 02:37:19 PM
Quote from: gina on November 12, 2008, 12:43:36 PM
Before HRT I found it a little hard to tuck also.... tried: duct tape, bands, tight undies ect, and other silly homemade things..  :D  Believe it or not the best then (pre HRT) that worked was duct tape ! but ouch !

Now the best I found out is like it was mentioned earlier in this thread... I tuck them in (much smaller now) and also have additional loose flesh (mound) there very similar to mons pubis like  a  female has and they fit into very easily and stay in place with a pad in place in my panties and I have no problem at all.   :)

gina
OMG I would use duct tape OMG did it hurt coming off and the sticky stuff left over was hell getting off medical tape is the way to go
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: luv2Bfem on November 12, 2008, 08:40:33 PM
I use nylon g-string panties. I buy them 1 or 2 sizes to small and made out of a non-stretch material. My favorites are a mesh nylon with little flowers. When I'm tucked tight into them my boy clit pushes my testicles to the side and it looks like I have a mound under my pants and shorts.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Hypatia on November 13, 2008, 05:25:10 PM
1) I just use a tight thong, a size too small. The stretch lace ones work best for me.
2) First I get everything in front into position. Retracted up into the inguinal canals, and stretched out flat along the perineum.
3) Make sure the thong front is covering and holding in everything just right.
4) Then the finishing touch is to haul up on the back of the thong, wedgie-style, to lock the assembly into place. Hold the front assembly in place with one hand while pulling up the back with the other hand. If you've arranged everything correctly, the wedgie does not hurt, there is no discomfort. Then I pull the sides up over the hipbones and smooth them out, which helps hold up the back, which helps maintain the entire assembly.
The resulting profile merely plumps up the mons veneris and you look exactly like a girl.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: krisalyx on December 12, 2008, 05:44:48 AM
can't do it i really just can't 'cause i've got well to misquote ac/dc "big balls" well its true had surgery years ago to shrink them but there still big and lord knows i've tried  i just can't shove them so i'll just wait so i can get a gaff anyway.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: aubrey on December 15, 2008, 01:19:39 AM
When I first figured out how to do it it changed my life and they're tucked 24/7 now except showers and such of course. I do the sort-of-tight panties thing on regular days and I'll do the pad thing if there is some irritation. Then there's taping when it comes to sexual function, which is maybe once a month or something (sorry if TMI). Surgical dressing/tape are the way to go, if I could do that everyday until SRS I would but the adhesive can cause some irritation long term. Pre-hrt it was a lil difficult to get them to stay put but 5 months in it is a breeze and they often even stay put when in the shower.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: krisalyx on December 16, 2008, 02:15:20 AM
ok now i get it! it took me a while but it's almost except for me it kinda looks like a giant canserious tumour instead of that oh-so perfect v-shape so let me see if i understand this i'm supposed to either tape the penis shaft or the balls or the whole mass am i close or complety of the mark.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Hiddendress on December 19, 2008, 05:37:55 PM
Hello,
       there are many ways of moving your downstairs with what ever size you are. tucking sounds a bit werid for me and duck tape would just be too painful but there is something called a gaff i dont know much about these ot how they work but it miht be a option. For me i just place it inbetween my legs a less painful way and it doesnt cost anything perfect.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: aubrey on December 20, 2008, 12:37:44 AM
When most ppl talk of taping...ummm ouch! That's not the right way to do it.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Kelsey on December 20, 2008, 01:17:10 AM
 I even heard duct tape once (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi92.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl33%2FSHROOPLISS%2FCustom%2520Smilies%2F16x16_smiley-hurt.gif&hash=ddd3f3cbb0acce45b0bc4b7b7f67b94faf2e3866)
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Candygirl on December 20, 2008, 04:12:57 PM
Gee whiz ladies...I can sort of understand how it could be a problem, especially if you are much more highly developed there. I was never given much of anything to deal with. ( I saw one of my brothers naked once, he was 17, and I was shocked...I was never like that..)
I can't imagine my husband doing any these things to himself...He'd probably scream in agony! Duct Tape? Ohh, ouchies...you poor babies...
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: Hypatia on December 20, 2008, 06:29:48 PM
I have never used tape and I certainly don't see any need to, with my method, which is simple, painless, yet effective.

And if you're not on estrogen already, it would definitely make this project far easier.
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: KarenLyn on December 20, 2008, 07:20:24 PM
Quote from: Maddie Suzumiya on November 03, 2008, 04:35:35 PM
Anyone have issues with them bulging outward from the abdominal wall?

Only pre-hrt. They've shrunk so much now that they hardly show at all even when not tucked.

Karen
Title: Re: Tucking genitals
Post by: katherine on December 22, 2008, 12:14:16 PM
I found that simply tucking works very well. It took a bit of getting used to, but it wasn't long before tucking was very quick and easy.  Tight panties were enough to keep things in place and I rarely had a problem with them dropping out.  It just got to the point where they stayed in place.  I've been tempted just to try a gaff, but I really don't have a need to.