My new girlfriend (female) of 6 months early on in our relationship confessed that she would like me to wear lingerie while making love. I agreed to try. I was shocked to find that I enjoyed wearing lingerie which she buys me. Eventually she started to buy me clothes and make me look like a girl using make up, wigs, corsets, breasts form, nails, and eyebrows. This I found ok as we did it at home. Then she suggested that she cut my hair more feminine and die it. I agreed as she is very persuasive. I am mostly dressed as a woman at home but have occasionally gone out dressed, which I finally agreed to do this for her. Lately she has mentioned that she would like me to grow breasts. I have been thinking that this is a step that I have to think about longer, but she has already purchased 9 months herbal pill supply from an internet website called transfemme. She wants me to have large breasts because it would make me look more realistic and she can play with them. What should I do?
Tell her you are NOT taking the pills she bought! Self-medicating is dangerous!
Besides, what do you want? It sounds to me that she's making you do this for her benefit, but what about yours? What are you getting out of this? Do you even want any of this? It sounds to me like you don't, and I apologize if I'm just making assumptions. But taking hormones of any kind causes big changes to your body, and if you aren't comfortable having them, it would cause major distress.
I guess I shouldn't jump the gun and assume she bought hormones, they could be just supplements, but in either case, you HAVE to think this through. Don't let her make you do anything you don't, because she sounds very manipulative.
I would make sure this is something you want more the she wants. Wigs, makeup and clothes can come off without the use of a knife. Breasts are a bit more difficult. As said, if you do agree your better off talking to a doctor then just taking anything herbal.
transfemme is basically way overpriced bovine ovary mixed with kelp. At any rate you'll likely go broke long before you see any sizable breast development, in spite of the very impressive results shown on their website.
Taking any kind of hormone treatments because it's what your G/f wants sounds like possibly the worst idea I have heard. What if you split up, are you still going to want them? If the answer is no, possibly not, I'm not sure or I think so then run a mile and do some serious thinking about what you do want from your life. You only get one and there are no refunds! (I'm not trying to be mean btw)
Hmm. Your girlfriend wants you to grow breasts?
That's not a bad idea.
If you grow them organically and get them certified you can demand a higher price.
I'm sure that there is a pretty good market for them here.
Quote from: Renate on March 17, 2011, 09:29:46 PM
I'm sure that there is a pretty good market for them here.
Cluckin' Bell Commercial (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNq6Fvjz6ww#)
unless you want to transition, you shouldn't be taking hormones because your girlfriend wants to. anyway, transfemme pills don't do a thing. i've heard this brought up on here before, and those pills just come straight out of your urine. what's more, you shouldn't let your girlfriend have this amount of control over you.
Jane,
I think you should heed the advice given above about taking hormones before you decide to transition. Do not let your girlfriend decide for you. The effects may be irreversable! :o The bovine ovary pills are an overpriced, overated product with too many variables in it. It works on some males who take it but it is not as effective as HRT. They warn on their website to the effect that it may cause permanent sterility, the same as the HRT most of us are taking here. I took the herbal version, including the breast massage, but only got results in the first 3 months than it plateaued and started reversing itself. The saw palmetto didn't do a thing with my prostate problem as it is touted for. Besides, my HRT regimen was cheaper than the herbs I was taken and about half the price of the bovine pills!
Joelene
"Jane"
Susan's is a serious site for people with serous needs. Not a place to play masturbatory games.
If you are not serious, please leave.
-Sandy
Your relationship sounds unhealthy. Your girlfriend shouldn't be forcing you to do things, and definitely shouldn't already be ordering supplements before even informing you.
Even if *you* genuinely want to grow breasts, which it doesn't sound like you do, it's a bad idea to be taking something that you ordered off the internet. If you have transgender feelings and you feel like a woman or feel like someone who wants to crossdress, you should explore this without her because she's very manipulative. She doesn't sound like someone who cares about your well-being, and she's not letting you make your own choices.
I'd wager a weeks wage vrs a box of donuts that the original poster is haveing his fun at our expense.
This thread smells fishy to me.
Have you noticed that the OP (Jane) has not made a followup response to anyone's comments. I say let this die on its own (unless Jane comes back) and move on.
I think locking this thread would be appropriate as well...
-Sandy
Quote from: Sarah Louise on March 18, 2011, 10:04:42 AM
Have you noticed that the OP (Jane) has not made a followup response to anyone's comments.
As a moderator of several different forums, I have learned to be extremely suspicious of first-time posters who mention websites.
Ditto, we got duped.
Joelene.
Gah! I'm just too trusting.
I'm looking to buy a bridge if anyone has one for sale! :laugh:
James Brown would like to be taken to one :).
i don't really know how you guys came to the conclusion this is a false thread. you must be really smart, but i understand now that they've not responded, and this is their one and only post on the site. anyway, i just don't think this thread has anymore layers to it than what has already been said.
Hidden advert I think spacey. I used to wonder too but lately I notice it a lot on replys on news or entertainment stories like yahoo
They post a reply but it also mentions a site to visit too
Quote from: SpaceyGirl on March 18, 2011, 06:35:05 PM
i don't really know how you guys came to the conclusion this is a false thread. you must be really smart, but i understand now that they've not responded, and this is their one and only post on the site. anyway, i just don't think this thread has anymore layers to it than what has already been said.
QuoteMy new girlfriend (female) of 6 months early on in our relationship confessed that she would like me to wear lingerie while making love. I agreed to try. I was shocked to find that I enjoyed wearing lingerie which she buys me. Eventually she started to buy me clothes and make me look like a girl using make up, wigs, corsets, breasts form, nails, and eyebrows. This I found ok as we did it at home. Then she suggested that she cut my hair more feminine and die it. I agreed as she is very persuasive. I am mostly dressed as a woman at home but have occasionally gone out dressed, which I finally agreed to do this for her. Lately she has mentioned that she would like me to grow breasts. I have been thinking that this is a step that I have to think about longer, but she has already purchased 9 months herbal pill supply from an internet website called transfemme. She wants me to have large breasts because it would make me look more realistic and she can play with them. What should I do?
SG:
It's not that we're smart. This just doesn't smell right. Think about it. Of all the posts we have here, how many have really said that their girlfriend instigated the idea of their boyfriend going fem? Besides this one? None.
"I was shocked! (Shocked I say!) To find that I enjoyed wearing lingerie which she buys me."
"Lately she mentioned that she would like me to grow breasts."
transfemme
I was waiting to read that "jane" was forced to ingest pills that his girlfriend told him were vitamins. But they had the oddest effects, and they were pink!
I hope "jane" had a good time at our expense. I hope "janes" "girlfriend" is happy too.
I don't want you to think I'm picking on you Spacey, I'm not really. I had a tooth extracted last night and I am in a fair amount of pain right now. We've been trolled before and I have little patience for clowns that think that we can be targeted for their own prurient amusement.
-Sandy
Way to Sandy,! block the bastard
Kate
Quote from: SpaceyGirl on March 18, 2011, 06:35:05 PM
i don't really know how you guys came to the conclusion this is a false thread.
It's called statistics.
Like I said, I've been a moderator at multiple forums. In that time, I've seen hundreds of first posts. The number of first posts which mention websites? Several dozen. The number of those posts in which those websites are selling something? Almost all of them.
I've found that the frequency with which first-time posters make a second post is indirectly proportional to the amount of crap being sold on the website mentioned or linked in the first post.
(If the OP does come back, I sincerely apologize for promoting stereotypes)
Yes it would be nice to have a girlfriend who really supports you making those changes but it sounds like You are are telling us of your dreamy wishes of what you'd like your GF to do. Transfemme doesnt work. By the time my mtf friend Stacie had used 6 months supply of Transfemme with no results I had a B cup using PM.
So whats the real story here?
Quote from: patriciatg2 on March 20, 2011, 11:40:54 AM
Yes it would be nice to have a girlfriend who really supports you making those changes but it sounds like You are are telling us of your dreamy wishes of what you'd like your GF to do. Transfemme doesnt work. By the time my mtf friend Stacie had used 6 months supply of Transfemme with no results I had a B cup using PM.
So whats the real story here?
Well I think "jane" was either trolling for customers or typing with only one hand...
-Sandy(I hate trolls)
Quote from: patriciatg2 on March 20, 2011, 11:40:54 AM
By the time my mtf friend Stacie had used 6 months supply of Transfemme with no results I had a B cup using PM.
That doesn't surprise me. The "Transfemme" site looks really sub-par, even for an herbal website.
Quote from: VeryGnawty on March 20, 2011, 05:10:06 PM
That doesn't surprise me. The "Transfemme" site looks really sub-par, even for an herbal website.
i've gotten a glimpse at it before, because of course it's been mentioned on this site before. it's a picture of a sexualized woman standing on one of those pick up trucks in a desert, and then i was like "no way is this a serious product." they've got about the same effect as candy cigarettes.