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Offline Lee

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Feeling oddly gay lately
« on: October 10, 2011, 04:01:13 am »
I've heard of people's sexualities changing as they transition or begin hormones.  However, I find it odd that just over the past week or so my interest in women has dropped to nada. 

This occurred to me after dancing with a hot girl who was wearing basically nothing at a salsa club a few nights ago.  Usually I'd flirt or at least entertain some fun thoughts, but instead the first thing I noticed was how cute her shoes were.  (I do have an appreciation of women's clothing....just not when it's on me.)  Lately no girls have been catching my eye, and when it's, erm, personal time women don't do a darned thing.

Despite this, my interest in men hasn't changed.  I usually have absolutely no preference for gender, so this feels really strange.  I kind of hope that my preference doesn't actually change completely.  I have nothing against being gay.  However, I am much more used to being around women, and really I tend to feel awkward when hanging out with other guys. 
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Re: Feeling oddly gay lately
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2011, 05:10:00 am »
Some people's sexual orientation is wandering... it's not a bad thing so long as you don't invest too much energy in resisting it. After all, in the end you don't fancy men or women, you fancy individuals. So if that's happening to you, just enjoy who you enjoy at the time, and don't worry about making a career out of any particular orientation :).
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