It's a GREAT idea to setup a road map for yourself. Plan things out, when you might like to realistically move through these various stages. It not a bad idea to say, "I want to start my HRT within 4 or 5 months time." and work towards that goal.
Have a road map planned out for the most immediate needs. Such as HRT, Facial Hair Removal, Coming out, Part Time, Full Time, etc. Not necessarily in that order. I think coming out should always come first, then perhaps facial hair removal.
But all of that is for you to decide. I hope I was able to help.
(That was my 100th post... Yay xD)