Until I was about 12, I dressed in a very feminine way, and loved feminine things. I had an androgynous personality, but was slightly more feminine than masculine. I didn't dress feminine because I was expected to, I did because I wanted to. I still didn't feel like a girl though, I didn't feel like a boy either. I dressed in feminine ways because I loved beauty and thought that femininity was more beautiful than masculinity. It wasn't until I started puberty that I started to actually feel like I had a gender. And at that point, I felt female for about 3-6 months, only through the influence of my female friends. Because of the fact that I was so girly as a child, my mom doesn't believe that I'm transgendered. I understand this, and accept it. It's perfectly logical for her to think like that. However, it's getting a bit ridiculous. When I tried to talk to her about how I felt, she barely listened because she already had her mind made up. If I didn't say the stereotypical transgendered thing to say as an answer, she would tell me it must have been a phase. Plus, I never mentioned it to her, so it must not have been going on before I mentioned it. I talked to her a year ago about starting T, and she said she might let me go to therapy if I still feel like it after a year. In 3 months, it will be a year, and I'm preparing to have to fight her for this.The main problem is, my mom is kind of narcissistic. She thinks she's right no matter what. She seems to think that I don't know what I'm talking about, and that this is just a phase, even though I told her how long it's been going on for. I don't know how to make her understand. She doesn't listen to what I say. She'll listen to bits and pieces of it and come to her own conclusion, and when I tell her she does that she just gets mad at me. When I talked to her about starting T, she didn't listen to what I had to say and she kept talking over me. I can't interrupt her, because she will be mad if I do. But staying silent won't do anything either. I have no idea how I'm going to convince her that I'm transgendered and need to start T, and more than that, I have no idea how to make her listen. Any help would be wonderful.