This is partly an anatomy question, I guess! Where is the base of the packer supposed to sit? I sort of assume it's supposed to be down by my clit, because of the anatomical parallel. But in practice mine always winds up much higher (halfway to my waist!), and often slips to the side as well. I have a 4.5" soft pack, that I keep in a Gear Guy FTM sock holder inside my boxer briefs.
I can't very well go about adjusting my cock all the time, so--where are they supposed to go? Is there a good way to keep them there?