I had been having anal sex for over 30 yrs and it was wonderful but since I have had surgery, the vaginal is OH MY GOD! I have only tried anal once since my surgery yrs ago and when the guy got it in halfway I felt as if i were going to throw up and I made him stop. NOW, it feels too weird. I know it is psychological but I just cant even imagine anything going in there now. My fiance now, wants to do it but I just cant let him. He NOW knows i am a post op transsexual but at first he didnt know. I explained to him WHY i dont like it and he understood and has left that alone. Now I am not stupid, he really likes anal sex and he will probably go find a female to do that to eventually but I told him that, you claimed my vagina is the best you have ever had due to the fact that it is tighter than any woman he has had in his life, so WHY anal? Usually a male likes anal because of the tightness as compared to most vaginas so there SHOULD be no need for anal IF that is the reasoning.