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When you hear a new song, a new joke, or something interesting happens to you, whom do want to tell? If there's someplace you want to go, who's the first person you ask along?

Spouse / significant other
Best friend
Housemate
Family member
Colleague at work
Other (tell us)
I wish I had someone like that
I don't really need some one like that

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Offline suzifrommd

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Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« on: November 17, 2014, 07:48:30 pm »
Who in your life do you feel most connected to? When you hear a new song, a new joke, or something interesting happens to you, whom do want to tell? If there's someplace you want to go, who's the first person you ask along?
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2014, 07:50:41 pm »
My wife.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2014, 07:54:09 pm »
Since my doggy died, no one. But I'm used to it.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2014, 08:07:54 pm »
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2014, 08:10:39 pm »
Since my doggy died, no one. But I'm used to it.

Big hug! I'm down to one dog now, he's the only one that gets the news of my life. I voted for the last option.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2014, 08:15:50 pm »
Since my doggy died, no one. But I'm used to it.

Big hugs to you.  I miss all my furry beastie friends so much.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2014, 08:20:18 pm »
my daughters... they are the apple of my eye

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2014, 08:24:52 pm »
Sorry to hear about your loss of pets. I've lost 2 cats and a dog within the last year. So many fur babies. :(

I have a few friends here but don't have much ability to go out keeping me locked away most of the time it seems.
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2014, 08:58:35 pm »
I oscillate between I don't need anyone like that, I wish I had someone like that, and hope that one day my SO would be that person.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2014, 10:32:10 pm »
That would be my best friend.  I love my best friend so much as she is so awesome.  I'm hoping one day I can have an S/O to talk to like I talk to her.
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #10 on: November 18, 2014, 12:16:31 am »
Myself, I very much prefer to be without people.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #11 on: November 18, 2014, 08:49:16 am »
My daughters are the only people that I really share my life with as my wife is still struggling with my situation and does not want to know, untill it effects her.
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #12 on: November 18, 2014, 03:33:10 pm »
My best friend or my dog. Both are technically housemates as well? :)
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #13 on: November 18, 2014, 03:46:13 pm »
Whenever something new happens, I get so excited to tell a certain very special girl the next time we talk. :)

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2014, 04:01:32 pm »
I had a friend like that but we had a massive "never talking to you again" falling out over something incredibly juvenile. We were both to blame and she moved off to another city and deliberately broke off all contact. I was (and am still) so angry about I never bothered to reconcile. Stupid I know. I had a big hole in my life after that, she was the person I'd catch up with every week, see movies with, chat on the phone, gossip, debrief, have drinks and dinner, etc. People were  convinced we were a couple but it was never like that. I'm over that loss but it would be nice to have someone like that again.  :-\
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #15 on: November 18, 2014, 04:16:17 pm »
My wife *is* my best friend, so technically both of those, I guess. :)

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #16 on: November 18, 2014, 04:21:29 pm »
At one point in my life that person would have been my younger brother and because of our closely shared lives he still "gets me" but is thousands of miles away and distance presents obstacles to updated connections for us.  I am fortunate to have a large circle of friends and those most connected ones are people who have shared time and space together in fun times and in adversity.  For many of us the connections work well enough to pick up where we left off, days, months, or even years ago.  The most meaningful connections need to be nurtured and mutually supported for growth and for going the distance IMO.  That most connected person in my life is my partner, spouse, friend and companion going on 41 years together, my wife.  Thanks for the thread and opportunity to reflect and make that tribute.
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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #17 on: December 14, 2014, 06:09:45 pm »
Who in your life do you feel most connected to? When you hear a new song, a new joke, or something interesting happens to you, whom do want to tell? If there's someplace you want to go, who's the first person you ask along?

my youngest daughter

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #18 on: December 14, 2014, 07:28:16 pm »
Right now I'm kind of lacking that person. Either I'll meet someone special in the future or I can share that with my son when he's a little older.

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Re: Who in your life do you feel most connected to?
« Reply #19 on: December 15, 2014, 11:34:38 am »
my husband; he's my rock

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