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Offline eli8282

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How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« on: February 06, 2015, 10:46:05 pm »
This is a problem for me everyday. With people who dont know i just react a way a cis guy does, but at school, we're everyone knows i'm trans it's awkward cause then people will be like: that doesnt hurt u u dont have balls...
So idk! What do/would you do?


Btw: no i'm not saying people do that to me all the time, but it happens you know? Its not people doing it to me
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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2015, 11:29:18 pm »
Well if they all know then there's no point in trying to pretend otherwise anyway. They're being jerks so you could always just shrug it off. But just to answer your question - the pain is fairly excruciating a bit like whacking your funny bone really really hard, except worse and in your crotch. The harder the whack the more excruciating. But if you've ever seen those Funniest Home Video shows where they show a series of guys getting whacked in the nuts, their reaction is fairly standard.
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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2015, 12:54:54 am »
This is a rather stupid, and possibly dangerous, past time that teen boys seem to get into. It is also sexual assault.

I would tell them to pee off and grow up.
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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2015, 01:42:25 am »
I would report them to the school councillors or principal.

As Cindy said its sexual harassment ftm or even mtf.

Never take bullying and report it asap.

In time the classmates will understand it not acceptable.

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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #4 on: February 07, 2015, 01:53:29 am »
Wait...are you saying that people at school are actually deliberately hitting you in the crotch?? If so that is definitely sexual assault. Report them ASAP.
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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2015, 01:58:40 pm »
I grab my croth and scream "ow, my balls" because it still hurts, balls or no balls, I just exaggerate to appear more like a male reaction

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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #6 on: February 09, 2015, 10:56:10 am »
I've never tried to change my natural reaction. Someone hit me there the other day and I was so shocked that I have a quick reaction. Probably wasn't as drawn out as a cis guy but no one questioned it, we just talk about my black and blue balls and how I apparently can no longer have children lol.

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Re: How do you react when hit in the balls?!!!? (FTM)
« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2015, 11:08:02 am »
Don't overdo it. How much it hurts and for how long depends on a lot of factors, but assuming that this is not a massive physical assault, it wouldn't be unusual to have a fairly minor reaction. It's not like every time you get hit there you are doubled over. Sometimes you get, er, lucky I guess you might say.

When it's bad, it can be baad. Like nauseated rolling on the ground kind of bad. But that's a once or twice in my life kind of experience.
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