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Offline AdenaTG

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Given Up!
« on: November 18, 2015, 10:38:43 pm »
Well the last few months have been crazy and I have been supper busy with my job over the summer and then my new job working at a ski resort this winter and I have realized that I don't have time to dress up or even the desire to dress up anymore. I have realized that perhaps I am not transgender at all and that I am more like gender fluid and that I switch back with being happy being a guy and then sometimes wanting to be a female.

My emotions are all over the place and then I realized that I can be happy being either even though majority of the time I am happy being a guy. I mean yeah female clothes are amazing but I don't mind a pair of jeans and a t shirt and a sweatshirt, I look better in that than I would ever look in a dress and so on. I just have to face reality and deal with that. I am sure I will be back in here when I do feel like dressing up in female clothes again but it sure won't be until at least the winter season is over.

I might come back and be a silent visitor lol

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Re: Given Up!
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2015, 12:19:24 am »
This site is about you finding a place in life where you are comfortable. If you are gender fluid and you can be comfortable in either roll, more power to you. You have found your place in life. To let you in on a little secret, my surgery was 33 year ago but I rarely dress up. In the summer a pair of shorts and a mans T shirt is my normal dress. In the winter I am comfortable in a pair of jeans and a sweat shirt. Many CIS women dress as I do but the trick is to be comfortable in your skin no matter what you are wearing.
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Re: Given Up!
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2015, 01:26:32 pm »

Life is complicated for most of us so please hold your head up and be the unique "you" that you are.  I can't dress the way I wish to as frequently as I want to but there is a beautiful Roxanne inside me at all times.... sending love and hugs of support
A gurl within her heart for many years, a gurl in her clothing and attitudes for 10 (and counting!)

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Re: Given Up!
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2015, 12:45:07 am »
Yes. When I am busy, I have little time for dressing up and beauty care. Wearing sexy clothes and makeup enable me to relax and enjoy leisure time. Yes. I always wear women's clothes and shoes. There are so diverse fashion items for women. In winter, I enjoy wearing fishnets and ankle boots. In summer, tube high-heel sandals, tops and bikinis.

When you are busy, just focus on your work. When you are relaxed, you can enjoy dressing.

Just do it.