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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1540 on: September 21, 2018, 12:12:07 pm »
The air conditioner for the house stopped working.  Turns out there's a hole in the evaporator coil because the jerks who designed this thing set it up for failure.  When steel and copper touch each other there's a reaction that makes the steel rust.  It's why you never mix steel and copper pipes in a house.

So thanks to this, the manufacturer ensured that the coil on this system would literally crumble after about 15 years of service, which mine just did.

I hope everyone who works planned obsolescence into things breaks their toe today.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1541 on: September 21, 2018, 01:07:56 pm »
A random guy at the hospital said I look like Joe Perry. I looked who that was up and he's a guitarist for Aerosmith.
Well, he's very talented but I felt insulted still. It might have been my hair since I was at the hospital and didn't have time to brush it or do anything with it... But I'm also thinking if it's my facial features like my prominent brow ridge, nose, and chin/jaw.
It was pretty upsetting..


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1542 on: September 21, 2018, 01:32:22 pm »
I just found out a long time friend of 40+ years has unfriended me on FB. I can't believe someone that has been through all the things that we have been through can just through it away because I came out. When I first came out, I called this person to make it official. He had already seen my new profile picture on FB. The first thing he said was "You make one ugly girl". About a month later he sent me a text. It read "I have to get counseling because of you! (Thanks F&%$er)". That was the last time we've talked.
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1543 on: September 21, 2018, 01:34:48 pm »
I chipped a tooth yesterday. Fun.

I hope that the tooth that you chipped is one of those that you were going to get a crown on? ???
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1544 on: September 21, 2018, 01:39:14 pm »
I just found out a long time friend of 40+ years has unfriended me on FB. I can't believe someone that has been through all the things that we have been through can just through it away because I came out. When I first came out, I called this person to make it official. He had already seen my new profile picture on FB. The first thing he said was "You make one ugly girl". About a month later he sent me a text. It read "I have to get counseling because of you! (Thanks F&%$er)". That was the last time we've talked.

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Dear Donica:
WOW, that certainly was an ugly thing to have happen to you....  so much for long time 40+ year friendships.
Why on earth did they have to say those hurtful things... they could have just unfriended you and then avoid any further contact... but they wanted to hurt you with words.

Hey, the good news is that you have lots and lots of very good and like minded friends here on the Forums !!!!
Hugs and well wishes. 
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1545 on: September 21, 2018, 01:48:36 pm »
A random guy at the hospital said I look like Joe Perry. I looked who that was up and he's a guitarist for Aerosmith.
Well, he's very talented but I felt insulted still. It might have been my hair since I was at the hospital and didn't have time to brush it or do anything with it... But I'm also thinking if it's my facial features like my prominent brow ridge, nose, and chin/jaw.
It was pretty upsetting..
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Dear Allison:
Absolutely you DO NOT HAVE predominately male appearing facial features.   
 Forget about the brow ridge, I never even noticed it in the "face" pictures that I have seen of you.

I think that you look amazing.... don't let some random nobody make you feel badly about your transition journey and feel badly about yourself.

You shouldn't care about unkind comments from people that do not know you and do not care about you.... and you don't know them enough to even care what they say....   
I know that this is easier said than done, but please, ignore the ignorant.

I am so sorry that you have experienced this rude and unkind behavior.   
Most of us here on the Forums personally know what that is like.
Hugs and hugs ... and wishing you well,
Danielle

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1546 on: September 21, 2018, 08:29:06 pm »
@Allison S:
Dear Allison:
Absolutely you DO NOT HAVE predominately male appearing facial features.   
 Forget about the brow ridge, I never even noticed it in the "face" pictures that I have seen of you.

I think that you look amazing.... don't let some random nobody make you feel badly about your transition journey and feel badly about yourself.

You shouldn't care about unkind comments from people that do not know you and do not care about you.... and you don't know them enough to even care what they say....   
I know that this is easier said than done, but please, ignore the ignorant.

I am so sorry that you have experienced this rude and unkind behavior.   
Most of us here on the Forums personally know what that is like.
Hugs and hugs ... and wishing you well,
Danielle

Thanks Danielle
The funny part is I didn't even look like him before hrt? I don't know lol

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1547 on: September 22, 2018, 07:00:34 am »
Found out the notes from my last assessment, the one I complained about, have been forwarded to my GP in spite of my request that this assessment be ignored.

Sometimes I really wonder if the services are trying to help or irritate my anxiety to the point of complete frigging breakdown.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1548 on: September 22, 2018, 01:19:26 pm »
I hope that the tooth that you chipped is one of those that you were going to get a crown on? ???
Unfortunately, I don't need any crowns regardless. Fortunately, it's not bad enough to worry about fixing. I actually kind of like it, to be honest. I can tell people I got it in a fight.



Anyway, today has just been one of those days where I'm not happy and I don't know why.


One thing that I'm sure of, though, is that I'm falling back in love with my first girlfriend and I'm pretty certain that she doesn't feel the same way. We're friends now and I don't want to risk making things awkward, so I guess I just won't tell her.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1549 on: September 22, 2018, 01:33:46 pm »
I have a fairly noticeable scar on my thumb and when people ask how I got it I just say I put myself through college by cage fighting.  Oh the looks I get.  ;D

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1550 on: Yesterday at 05:12:07 am »
Cockroaches are living in my modem. I've already caught 3 within feet of it, and a fourth escaped.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1551 on: Today at 10:59:54 am »
Supposed to get my letter for HRT today, didn't.  Can't get anyone at the only planned parenthood anywhere close to me to offer transgender care to answer my phone calls... so ya, I'm not sure I'm going to make it much longer without estrogen in my blood.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1552 on: Today at 11:32:54 am »
Supposed to get my letter for HRT today, didn't.  Can't get anyone at the only planned parenthood anywhere close to me to offer transgender care to answer my phone calls... so ya, I'm not sure I'm going to make it much longer without estrogen in my blood.

I'm sorry that you're going through that.

I never called to talk to them directly, I simply made an appointment for transgender services and showed up.



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Re: What made you unhappy today? 7.0
« Reply #1553 on: Today at 11:37:57 am »
At this center, you can't just make an appointment for a new patient, you have to talk to the director to make one, she won't answer the phone or return my calls.

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