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Offline Drexy/Drex

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #260 on: February 09, 2018, 02:14:15 pm »
If time keeps flying as it is doing, I'll be a hundred years old next week.
That would be nothing to a time lord .....😉
Regeneration. .....hmmm i need to hit fast forward

Cheating pic taken with old tab  ...i like the dark 😆😉....thats the guest cat n the background  ....tempestuous  wee thing

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #261 on: February 09, 2018, 04:25:46 pm »
Time Lady if you please :)

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #262 on: February 09, 2018, 05:16:20 pm »
Time duchess/ countess ?...i think countess suits😊
Edit well from this "lady " is correct
The appellation "lord" is primarily applied to men, while for women the appellation "lady" is used. However, this is no longer universal: the Lord of Mann, a title currently held by the Queen of the United Kingdom, and female Lord Mayors are examples of women who are styled Lord.
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #263 on: February 09, 2018, 07:09:38 pm »
Time duchess/ countess ?...i think countess suits😊
Edit well from this "lady " is correct
The appellation "lord" is primarily applied to men, while for women the appellation "lady" is used. However, this is no longer universal: the Lord of Mann, a title currently held by the Queen of the United Kingdom, and female Lord Mayors are examples of women who are styled Lord.
Lord - Wikipedia

But I don't want to be a lord, how about a lordess?

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #264 on: February 09, 2018, 09:53:38 pm »
Lordess is perfect 😉☺
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #265 on: February 09, 2018, 11:20:29 pm »
Lordess is perfect 😉☺

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #266 on: February 23, 2018, 02:29:53 pm »
A few pics of the clinic will take some better ones , very aesthetic outside and in,



Aftercare has been great i got to meet Dr Cardenas's wife who worked on my nose, she is a specialist
soon to do a face lift , i am very happy with the results so far
I basically gave gave Dr Cardenas carte blanche to do what he saw fit within the parameters of our preop discussion, 
Guadulara is Mexico's equivalent of San francisco, its very laid back ,
No dramas here 😊
i'm staying at an lgbt friendly airbnb  guest house  very relaxing place to recuperate
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #267 on: March 04, 2018, 02:14:52 pm »
I said i would take some more photos of the clinic but this link shows the facilities better
www.innovarecirugiaplastica.com/galeria/

So why did i travel from perth australia all the way here? , through all my research i nailed it down to 3 surgeons
My very first choice long ago was Dr Cardenas, a few somewhat uncoventional reasons apart from the normal ones, i think the first that comes  to mind is his skill ...and experence over 200 ffs ops  a few can be seen on the transop site along with a lot of written successes from woman who have moved on .

Initially i had some reservations...i had the idea mexico was dangerous and bad cosmetic results....however
that maybe true in some places as in all , but i felt safer walking the streets at night then in melboune
and also it was so far away
But gdl is a world class city clean , and safe

Iwhen i saw Dr C together with his beautiful wife ....i thought thats a man with good taste in woman , and ioved the idea of his wife doing the rhinoplasty, actually i thought it was quite romantic them both working together,
I wanted some who was aggressive but an artist as well, as in my case i wasnt girly looking for a start so my aim
was for androgynous which fits with being nb for myself,.

Cost was a consideration as well but i could have gone to thailand and saved myself a fair bit but in the end at my age especially ffs is not something to skimp on

Anyway i made it clear that i did not want to try for beautiful or pretty due to my build ...but to try for handsome female ....not only is it a personal aesthetic  desire but also a pragmatic one for me
I have a friend who had gcs surgery early on and  was on hrt for over 3 years and she assured me that no amount of hrt changed her browline,nose ,jaw etc and it was true from her photos

Ffs was first on my list and hearing and seeing her story helped make my decision although im sure if nature has already laid the foundation, or one is young or both then experences will differ
enough has been done now i can let the hrt do the rest and i can say although initially i regretted my decision after all the swelling went down i could see and appreciate the skill of what had been done..

..i now have a set of lips ...yay!!! its remarkable how to me how Dr could gauge how much fat to infiltrate so as to compensate for the % of reabsorption  and get the right look.

I've yet to try makeup but if i wear a dewrag my face looks female and if i wear a cap it looks softish male
All in all its done wonders for my dysphoria ....and theres still more that could be done
But the foundation has been laid and im grateful for the result
I'll post some before and after photos when appropiate

Btw i've had comments from people who know me well that i have a great smile and look younger to others who havent seen me for some time and  that they had to do a double take

All in all from my view point its a big improvement from before .....still dont like my photo being taken though

I'm still here in Guadalajara making the best of my time off ....work is calling but i hope to have lasik and maybe the facelift before i head back....also since i,m so close i'd like to see the space museum in texas
Work.....always interfering....with my best laid plans lol



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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #268 on: March 07, 2018, 05:59:34 pm »
This was taken a couple of weeks ago still some swelling
I need to have the face lift to take up the slack  but i see a change...depends what mirror im looking at


Oh and the clothes here....all sizes not like thailand where its all size 6 almost.....miles of fashion 😊
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #269 on: March 07, 2018, 07:06:47 pm »
Wow I think you're doing great Markie!! You look younger and more feminine. Have you tried on makeup after surgery yet?

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #270 on: March 08, 2018, 10:57:13 am »
Thanks Allison😊
I think Dr Cardenas and his wife  and team did a good job considering what they had to work with, bit of weight to lose now....
I havent tried any makeup as yet but i'm looking forward to it
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #271 on: March 08, 2018, 06:06:40 pm »
Glad your doing better.  For some reason the last pic I saw was the one where you're my Mummy.  Haven't seen any of the others.

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #272 on: March 08, 2018, 07:58:10 pm »
This was taken a couple of weeks ago still some swelling
I need to have the face lift to take up the slack  but i see a change...depends what mirror im looking at


Oh and the clothes here....all sizes not like thailand where its all size 6 almost.....miles of fashion 😊

Oh wow what a difference...you look fabulous...I am so glad your experience has been so good. It sounds to me as though your research has paid off for you and that you are going to get the results you are wanting. Fantastic outcome...will have to look back and see what I missed over the last 2 months

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #273 on: March 09, 2018, 11:02:02 am »
Thanks Liz your very kind  it seems to be getting  better slowly, its  better than i expected so thats something im grateful for that☺
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #274 on: March 09, 2018, 11:03:31 am »
Glad your doing better.  For some reason the last pic I saw was the one where you're my Mummy.  Haven't seen any of the others.
Thanks Cassi😊
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #275 on: March 09, 2018, 12:08:43 pm »
I kinda like this its almost a mantra to me ....sometning to embrace ie : social perceptions of others towards me

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #276 on: March 09, 2018, 12:29:56 pm »
Harry Potter's dad, William :)

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #277 on: March 09, 2018, 02:56:46 pm »
Mmm another snap shot ....still dodging reality useing the shadows and the beauty filter 😂😅😆
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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #278 on: March 09, 2018, 02:58:38 pm »
Mmm another snap shot ....still dodging reality useing the shadows and the beauty filter 😂😅😆


Your filter is working great - can't see a thang! :)

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Re: Thinking out loud
« Reply #279 on: March 09, 2018, 03:01:23 pm »
Mmm thats strange maybe its your  browser ?
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