I love my son and he is glad I support him. It was when he was 12 years old, came out as male and female. 15 years old now and is genderfluid. School knows about this and has resolved problems in the past. He has been teased and picked on a few times. He does dress in girl's clothes at least twice a week to school and school is aware he is genderfluid. I know this is my son and love him for who he is.
Clothes shopping for him, it is also done in the girl's section and we do get weird looks sometimes. Do have parents come up sometimes also and give him positive comments. He lives with me now, mom does not support him at all and said it's a phase at first. Has not learned this is no phase and he is finally happy. Loves dresses and skirts,his closet is full of boy's and girl's clothing including his dresser. Includes tops and now hoop and dangling earrings.
Did get both of his ears pierced in December finally and this was his birthday present from me. Has his shoe collection which is mostly wedges, sandals and a few pairs of 2 inch heels. My wife got him 3 pairs of 2 inch heels that he loves for his Christmas present. My wife is also supportive of him and knows he is a normal teenage boy.