Barbie, I've been on Finasteride for about 3-1/2 years for BPH and while I'm not convinced it has helped with scalp hair loss, it has unexpectedly helped in other areas. It dramatically helped reduce body hair and noticably softened my skin, even in the absense of HRT. That I never expected. It also helped greatly with the the BPH/urinary problems, but that's another issue... I do still have quite a bit of my hair (at almost 72), but it has thinned somewhat toward the back/crown and temple areas and is much finer than it used to be. I haven't cut it in over a year and a half now and it's beginning to hit my shoulders.
I did start HRT (moderate dosage) 9 months ago, and even that doesn't seem to have helped with any restoration of hair in the thin areas (it has made nice improvements in other areas though

). Perhaps with more time; we'll see... I've recently begun using conditioner only, no shampoo to avoid stripping the natural oils out. Many conditioners have mild cleansers as well as restorative components, and fair number of people use it alone. I like the changes to the hair texture so we'll see where it goes.
Celine