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NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test
« on: December 31, 2017, 08:45:08 am »
NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/12/31/nhs-apologises-for-allocating-trans-nurse-for-smear-test/

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Re: NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2017, 09:05:42 am »
My opinion, however unpopular it may be, is that one who expects to be accepted as female ought to make at least some effort to present that way.


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Re: NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test
« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2017, 11:14:09 am »
My opinion, however unpopular it may be, is that one who expects to be accepted as female ought to make at least some effort to present that way.


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Re: NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test
« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2017, 11:53:00 am »
This is silly and overdone. They should just have given the woman another nurse and move on. It doesn't say she went along with it? I would understand if she went along with it because they convinced her and then ended up getting molested or sexually assaulted. But that happens regardless of gender.

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Re: NHS apologises for allocating trans nurse for smear test
« Reply #4 on: December 31, 2017, 02:02:39 pm »
This is one of those cases that I worry gives fuel to the bathroom bill crowd. :/

I don't understand the nurse's mentality on this at all... as a medical professional it is her job to put the patient first, including just making sure they are comfortable, no matter what. Showing up dressed in a manner that sounds like it was simply unprofessional, male or female, is just not acceptable in that environment. And honestly, if the patient was uncomfortable with their nurses presentation, they shouldn't be made to feel bad about it either. To put it another way, if it had been a cis-female nurse who showed up with heavy tattoos and a beard, I can't imagine the patient being very comfortable then either. (I know that I get a little uncomfortable at my dermatologist when I get this one nurse who clearly doesn't take care of herself at all, and she has a massive biker gang type tattoo encircling her entire arm, and that has nothing to do with gender presentation).
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