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Offline Cassi

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BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« on: January 05, 2018, 12:01:56 pm »
Hello to all.

Well, I told my niece I was transgender and after the are you serious, etc and sending pictures of my meds, she says she wanted to be sure that I was serious as she always felt I had a "female" air about me.

Then proceeds to tell me how proud she is of me for going for what I needed to be.


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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2018, 12:14:26 pm »
We're proud of you, too!

Hugs, Devlyn
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #2 on: January 05, 2018, 02:26:47 pm »
Good on you and hopefully things will be a lot more beautiful and better for you in 2018.😆💖  i remember telling my wifes sister and she was was so happy for me. 😆 lol haha  now she buys me so much female clothes and stuff for me. I'm so lucky to have a nice sister inlaw. 😆 💖 💋
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2018, 07:12:06 pm »
Way to go Cali. Women so often are happy for us, especially younger ones. Now that you have momentum, keep it rolling.
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #4 on: January 05, 2018, 07:23:59 pm »
Cali  It seems you have an excellent niece. It sure helps when people you think may not be receptive blow your  mind. My niece surprised me too. She said she loved me more than ever.
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #5 on: January 07, 2018, 07:58:37 pm »
What an awesome niece and how great that you could share with her! Getting positive vibes and feedback and affirmation is such a wonderful feeling.
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #6 on: January 07, 2018, 08:13:08 pm »
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #7 on: January 07, 2018, 10:50:27 pm »
Oh Gheeeze ! 
  Sorry Cali I thought you might escape her notice but she's found you. Who you ask? Why that happy moaning person... That Woman...  Minerca .... Myorca? oh heck That Woman works for her. (I wish she would use a normal name like Moony or something)  Anyway you have to be careful of her she sees things that are not there. Like her special invisible 6'3" white rabbit Harvey. Uh huh you got it I'm surprised Harvey hasn't brought his friend Jimmy Stewart. When she was in the hospital after having GCS she even thout she saw me there in Pennsylvania. Ha like riiiight I'm in Oregon. It tell you she's delusion, delusional but harmless really.

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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #8 on: January 08, 2018, 08:05:25 am »
Quote from: Laurie on January 07, 2018, 10:50:27 pm
Oh Gheeeze ! 
  Sorry Cali I though you might escape her notice but she's found you. Who you ask? Why that happy moaning person... That Woman...  Minerca .... Myorca? oh heck That Woman works for her. (I wish she would use a normal name like Moony or something)  Anyway you have to be careful of her she sees things that are not there. Like her special invisible 6'3" white rabbit Harvey. Uh huh you got it I'm surprised Harvey hasn't brought his friend Jimmy Stewart. When she was in the hospital after having GCS she even thout she saw me there in Pennsylvania. Ha like riiiight I'm in Oregon. It tell you she's delusion, delusional but harmless really.

 Laurie

Laurie,

Use to take that 6' Pooka on drinking binges back during my college days.

Moni is awesome!  She even lives in a neat town, lol.
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #9 on: January 08, 2018, 10:03:15 am »
Quote from: Cali on January 08, 2018, 08:05:25 am
Laurie,

Use to take that 6' Pooka on drinking binges back during my college days.

Moni is awesome!  She even lives in a neat town, lol.

 You have been Warned... BEWARE of That Woman. You don't know her like we do...

  I would tell you to just ask Clyde, but she did him in...  turned him inside out... What was left of him was but a shell of who he was... She flattened him and tried to make him look good, but nothing could disguise what she did... The poor stiff, you can't imagine what she did to him.

     BEWARE

Hugs,
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #10 on: January 08, 2018, 10:19:04 am »
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #11 on: January 08, 2018, 10:31:08 am »
 Pssst, Cali, No don't turn around just listen. Pretend I'm not here. 

( Monica is also a wonderful friend who I would cross this country to help if she needed me to. But don't tell her that or her head swells and that makes her bad spells worse.)
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #12 on: January 08, 2018, 11:54:39 am »
Quote from: Laurie on January 08, 2018, 10:31:08 am
Pssst, Cali, No don't turn around just listen. Pretend I'm not here. 

( Monica is also a wonderful friend who I would cross this country to help if she needed me to. But don't tell her that or her head swells and that makes her bad spells worse.)

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh,  for a while I thought you were trying to tell me she's an AXE MURDERERESS :)
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« Reply #13 on: January 08, 2018, 02:15:08 pm »
Anybody here seen my ax?
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2018, 02:16:39 pm »
Quote from: HappyMoni on January 08, 2018, 02:15:08 pm
Anybody here seen my ax?

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh My Gun
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« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2018, 02:34:13 pm »
Relax just cutting up carrots for Harvey. Gotta soak them in booze of course.

Laurie, you gotta stop warning people about me. One day they will really think I'm crazy. I'm crazy. I'm crazy. Slap! Oh, that's better.
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Re: BENEFITS OF COMING OUT
« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2018, 03:02:24 pm »
Quote from: HappyMoni on January 08, 2018, 02:34:13 pm
Relax just cutting up carrots for Harvey. Gotta soak them in booze of course.

Laurie, you gotta stop warning people about me. One day they will really think I'm crazy. I'm crazy. I'm crazy. Slap! Oh, that's better.

So, you have that deranged Pooka!!!!  He hung out with me all through college and was a great friend while the drinks were flowing but when I cut back he disappeared. You better lock your liquor and wine cabinets.
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« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2018, 03:20:58 pm »
Well, at least he has never hidden his drinking. He has always  been transparent with me. He does have a tendency to disappear as you say. He is very cute when he says the pledge of allegiance, ever hear him? He always ends with... "invisible, with liberty and justice for all." Such a cute little wabbit!
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« Reply #18 on: January 08, 2018, 06:22:24 pm »
OMG, I forgot about his drinking and singing antics, Beer Barrel Pooka,  Mary Had A Little Pooka, Pooka Me & A Dog Named Blue.  Goes on forever.

Then the bragging about creating the light bulb and the one that still burning in that fire station was his and not Tesla's or Edison's.

Oh, and never ever let him be the designated driver because he says designated drivers drink for free and when you get pulled over by a cop guess who's nowhere to be found?
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« Reply #19 on: January 08, 2018, 07:40:11 pm »
Quote from: Cali on January 08, 2018, 06:22:24 pm
OMG, I forgot about his drinking and singing antics, Beer Barrel Pooka,  Mary Had A Little Pooka, Pooka Me & A Dog Named Blue.  Goes on forever.

Then the bragging about creating the light bulb and the one that still burning in that fire station was his and not Tesla's or Edison's.

Oh, and never ever let him be the designated driver because he says designated drivers drink for free and when you get pulled over by a cop guess who's nowhere to be found?

Yes, and the cross dressing got out of hand. He looked good as a kangaroo, but when he started with raccoon, well, I couldn't keep him out of the trash cans. Don't get me started on him playing possum.
Moni

Bout now I bet Laurie wished she never started this.
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