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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #40 on: January 18, 2018, 10:43:33 pm »


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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #41 on: January 18, 2018, 11:29:08 pm »
Wrong Show :p

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #42 on: January 19, 2018, 02:31:44 am »
I find some regular guys I run into to be really attractive. There were handsome men eveywhere yesterday at the clinic I work at! I almost couldn't contain myself. Lol too bad I looked like a mess..

And yes they looked kinda like these guys!!
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #43 on: January 19, 2018, 03:32:45 am »
I find some regular guys I run into to be really attractive. There were handsome men eveywhere yesterday at the clinic I work at! I almost couldn't contain myself. Lol too bad I looked like a mess..

And yes they looked kinda like these guys!!
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They're cute! I like the sort of laid back relaxed look on a man rather than the macho look. Aggressive looking men scare me off big time. They do have to be taller than me and well groomed is a must! 

On a woman I'm pretty open to almost anything but my track record is well endowed blondes. As long as they're comfortable with me and comfortable with themselves!

Good tattoos are hot on both. Less keen on non ear piercings on guys.

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #44 on: January 19, 2018, 06:50:52 am »
The kind of women I used to like and date where always older than me the soccer mom type I did go for personality to I liked kind caring loving fun smart bubbly. 

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #45 on: January 19, 2018, 01:54:13 pm »
Still a question I'm working on. But, I do love green eyes. And I tend towards darker hair, though red is good, too. Never been a big fan of blonde, even though my friend I've got a crush on is blonde.  ???
And tattoos? Nope. I can appreciate the artistry of some, but they're a bit of a turn-off for me. A small one may be OK, but the giant ones just.... no.

With women, I'm not incredibly picky. I do have a thing for Asian women, though.

When it comes to men, I really like guys that are toned but not overly muscled (there are exceptions, and I don't mind oggling when the opportunity arises).


Yeah, there you go.  :eusa_drool:
.... where was I?  That's right. I also like guys that are, I don't know how to describe it. A bit nerdy? A bit femme? I don't even know any examples off the top of my head.

At any rate, I agree with Ellie and some of the others here - I'm more interested in personality & intelligence. I couldn't really be in a relationship with someone that shared little to none of my interests no matter how attractive I found them. I'd also hate to constantly be having to explain things to a boyfriend/girlfriend.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #46 on: January 19, 2018, 01:57:38 pm »
Back in my drinking days, my answer would be "One that is breathing"
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #47 on: January 19, 2018, 03:09:14 pm »
Still a question I'm working on. But, I do love green eyes. And I tend towards darker hair, though red is good, too. Never been a big fan of blonde, even though my friend I've got a crush on is blonde.  ???
And tattoos? Nope. I can appreciate the artistry of some, but they're a bit of a turn-off for me. A small one may be OK, but the giant ones just.... no.

With women, I'm not incredibly picky. I do have a thing for Asian women, though.

When it comes to men, I really like guys that are toned but not overly muscled (there are exceptions, and I don't mind oggling when the opportunity arises).
Yeah, there you go.  :eusa_drool:
.... where was I?  That's right. I also like guys that are, I don't know how to describe it. A bit nerdy? A bit femme? I don't even know any examples off the top of my head.

At any rate, I agree with Ellie and some of the others here - I'm more interested in personality & intelligence. I couldn't really be in a relationship with someone that shared little to none of my interests no matter how attractive I found them. I'd also hate to constantly be having to explain things to a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Really? You don't like tattoos and big muscles? I find both totally hot! I don't like small or fem guys. I guess I'm superficial. I like a guy to have a good intellect and personality but I couldn't be in a relationship with someone unless I find him hot.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #48 on: January 19, 2018, 03:40:53 pm »
At any rate, I agree with Ellie and some of the others here - I'm more interested in personality & intelligence. I couldn't really be in a relationship with someone that shared little to none of my interests no matter how attractive I found them. I'd also hate to constantly be having to explain things to a boyfriend/girlfriend.

I think given my own preferences, a bit nerdy is going to be a given for me. And yeah, don't want to have to explain things at all. ;D

Really? You don't like tattoos and big muscles? I find both totally hot! I don't like small or fem guys. I guess I'm superficial. I like a guy to have a good intellect and personality but I couldn't be in a relationship with someone unless I find him hot.

I don't care for tattoos at all myself, not even small ones, unless they have meaning. Not some bs meaning like "I got tattoo of a skull, because it reminds me we're all skeletons on the inside. #equality", but meaning like a cultural significance. Tribal or military tattoos for instance, I'm totally behind. The idea that someone would put themselves through all that, and be stuck with something forever, and it not have a depth to it... I just don't understand it, and can't go with it.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #49 on: January 19, 2018, 06:32:07 pm »
Attractiveness is important too, at first. But in anything long term it becomes less important with time and whether or not they annoy you is more of a concern, lol.

I've only ever had long term deeply involved relationships. And then no matter how hot or not they are, they gotta have some integrity and substance. And not be crazy. Don't go for crazy, no matter how hot it is. 

 

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #50 on: January 19, 2018, 08:29:35 pm »
  You youngins and young at hearts. Love to see you all full of hope and desires. But after more than 21 years of a rocky marriage to a woman I loved with all my heart through all our troubles, her divorcing me and several years of a broken heart. Then another 20+ years without someone to love. I've resigned myself to remaining alone. I'm okay with that. I wouldn't wish me on any fine woman now. Besides I probably don't have all that much time left anyway. I live a  day at a time because I don't know if I'll have a tomorrow. That doesn't leave much time for romance.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #51 on: January 19, 2018, 09:24:04 pm »
  You youngins and young at hearts. Love to see you all full of hope and desires. But after more than 21 years of a rocky marriage to a woman I loved with all my heart through all our troubles, her divorcing me and several years of a broken heart. Then another 20+ years without someone to love. I've resigned myself to remaining alone. I'm okay with that. I wouldn't wish me on any fine woman now. Besides I probably don't have all that much time left anyway. I live a  day at a time because I don't know if I'll have a tomorrow. That doesn't leave much time for romance.

I do see your point Laurie, for me it is a comfort thing for when i lonely, romantic feeling loved and needed I just want that for once some one holding me at night or holding my hand out in public kissing cuddling watching movies I so miss all that stuff I never had it as a real relationship

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #52 on: January 19, 2018, 11:37:42 pm »
  You youngins and young at hearts. Love to see you all full of hope and desires. But after more than 21 years of a rocky marriage to a woman I loved with all my heart through all our troubles, her divorcing me and several years of a broken heart. Then another 20+ years without someone to love. I've resigned myself to remaining alone. I'm okay with that. I wouldn't wish me on any fine woman now. Besides I probably don't have all that much time left anyway. I live a  day at a time because I don't know if I'll have a tomorrow. That doesn't leave much time for romance.

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #53 on: February 22, 2018, 07:06:27 pm »
I'm actually not sure what kind of guys I find attractive. Cause oddly enough it seems that the more handsome a guy is to me, the less of a spark I'm likely to feel for him. I like the ragged old ones that no one seems to understand why I'm drawn towards, not even me, I just am somehow. I haven't figured out the reason behind that yet, but I think it has something to do with that I can't seem to be in love with and sexually attracted to the same types of guys. Or the same guy, for that matter. It's just either or.

So ultimately I kind of end up going with pretty much any kind of guy in which size, shape, age, or looks in general don't matter and I don't take into account. Only chemistry, communication and connection does. Cause those are the things that either makes me be into him or not. It's easy to find hookups that way, maybe too easy even, but I'm also known to have "no standards" and that I would "sleep with anyone who has a pulse" so yeah. And then all of my romantic/long term relationships end up being more or less completely asexual instead. Oh, well *deep sigh* to that, I guess.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #54 on: February 22, 2018, 07:59:19 pm »
I'm still asking myself what kind of guys i like as i'm still exploring that whole side of my sexuality. But i do know i'm sick of guys who think i should be a submissive sex doll so i'd say respect is top of my list. Ironically i dont usually like to take the lead and i'm usually up for some fun so if they would have just been gentle and respectfull they would have found me very willing. Oh i think i just answeared my own question.

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #55 on: February 22, 2018, 08:04:46 pm »
I'm still asking myself what kind of guys i like as i'm still exploring that whole side of my sexuality. But i do know i'm sick of guys who think i should be a submissive sex doll so i'd say respect is top of my list. Ironically i dont usually like to take the lead and i'm usually up for some fun so if they would have just been gentle and respectfull they would have found me very willing. Oh i think i just answeared my own question.

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Hmm I think you would have to really look to find a guy like that. In my experience most guys tend to be dominant with sex and expect their partner to be submissive. Or maybe it's just the type of guy I'm attracted to. I don't know for sure.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #56 on: February 22, 2018, 08:34:43 pm »
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #57 on: February 22, 2018, 08:42:16 pm »
Hmm I think you would have to really look to find a guy like that. In my experience most guys tend to be dominant with sex and expect their partner to be submissive. Or maybe it's just the type of guy I'm attracted to. I don't know for sure.
I dont mind if they like to take the lead in bed and general life but if being threatend with being outed or beaten for "talking back" or not being in the mood for sex is normal i guess i'll just have to be alone.

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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #58 on: February 22, 2018, 08:54:34 pm »
I dont mind if they like to take the lead in bed and general life but if being threatend with being outed or beaten for "talking back" or not being in the mood for sex is normal i guess i'll just have to be alone.

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OMG, that's awful. No, that's totally not normal. I thought you just meant dominant sexually.
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Re: What type of guy or girl do you like?
« Reply #59 on: February 22, 2018, 09:01:55 pm »
I dont mind if they like to take the lead in bed and general life but if being threatend with being outed or beaten for "talking back" or not being in the mood for sex is normal i guess i'll just have to be alone.

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