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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #20 on: February 21, 2018, 02:29:36 pm »
There's no shame in being a greedy bi/pan sort of person.

Unless of course you're afraid of losing attraction to someone you're already committed to.  In which case I wouldn't be terribly afraid.

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #21 on: February 21, 2018, 04:12:50 pm »
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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #22 on: February 21, 2018, 05:58:06 pm »
I never ever not even once thought about liking a guy. But.......... That was before HRT. Now I dunno.. There is this beautive native american flute player who just makes my insides turn to jello. I would die to have his arms wrapped around me. His name is Alexandro Querevalú. Here is one of his youtube videos.





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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #23 on: February 21, 2018, 06:10:20 pm »
It's funny how many young guys want to be with an older woman.






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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #24 on: February 21, 2018, 06:11:12 pm »
Let me be honest... I am pansexual. I find people of various genders attractive. ;)

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #25 on: October 28, 2018, 02:43:16 pm »
I'm bumping an old(er) thread here...

I don't think I have an attraction to females. But I am attracted to men and males who express their femininity without altering their physical bodies. I'm not attracted to a crossdresser, but a few pieces or clothing is okay. I also like guys who can appear slightly andro or metrosexual. But I tend to attract men that are tall and muscular- which is fine since I'm 5'7" and soft bodied, so the contrast makes me feel more feminine.

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #26 on: October 28, 2018, 04:01:53 pm »
I am attracted to people... just so happens most of the nice people I meet are women. Men tend to be more selfish.
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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #27 on: October 28, 2018, 05:54:11 pm »
I have realised since transitioning that I have always dated women who were strong and quite masculine in their energy. I didn't understand it before. But I think now it makes sense. I couldn't date a really feminine girl because I was the one wanting to be feminine. Now I have a fantasy that I want a male partner because he would hold me and be stronger than me and I could be the feminine one. But not because I find them sexual attractive as such. But when I was about 10  I used to muck around with boys (be naked) but was not biased as I would have mucked around with a girl if there was one in my circle. So I think If the opportunity arises and I Can sustain an attraction and connection with a man I will kiss one. I find it so fascinating . (It's like catching a unicorn) It's like my own sexuality is a mystery to me and I am uncovering it . although 45 years on I need to get a move on.... lol.  When I think about me with a man I giggle.... How amazing this world is and these things we live inside.... out bodies...... Love to you all..... -Cloé
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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #28 on: October 28, 2018, 06:40:19 pm »
Pre-transition I did not realize that there were as many women out there that are attracted to other women.
Since I came out full-time almost 2 years ago I have attracted several suitors and romantic interests, both men and women. 

I have dated both guys and gals and I can say that all things being equal I do not have a preference for either one....  the guy that I am dating is a sweet and considerate fellow, he was sweet on me before he knew I was a trans-woman...    and the 2 gals that are interested in me are equally sweet and considerate....  it is difficult to say whether I like gals more or guys more....  both have their unique qualities  (as I do).

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #29 on: October 28, 2018, 07:29:29 pm »
I have realised since transitioning that I have always dated women who were strong and quite masculine in their energy. I didn't understand it before. But I think now it makes sense. I couldn't date a really feminine girl because I was the one wanting to be feminine. Now I have a fantasy that I want a male partner because he would hold me and be stronger than me and I could be the feminine one. But not because I find them sexual attractive as such. But when I was about 10  I used to muck around with boys (be naked) but was not biased as I would have mucked around with a girl if there was one in my circle. So I think If the opportunity arises and I Can sustain an attraction and connection with a man I will kiss one. I find it so fascinating . (It's like catching a unicorn) It's like my own sexuality is a mystery to me and I am uncovering it . although 45 years on I need to get a move on.... lol.  When I think about me with a man I giggle.... How amazing this world is and these things we live inside.... out bodies...... Love to you all..... -Cloé
P.s. the best part about being a trans woman is I have now given my self permission to be whoever I am and try what ever I need to do express my inner most being......
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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #30 on: October 28, 2018, 07:44:31 pm »
I have realised since transitioning that I have always dated women who were strong and quite masculine in their energy. I didn't understand it before. But I think now it makes sense. I couldn't date a really feminine girl because I was the one wanting to be feminine. Now I have a fantasy that I want a male partner because he would hold me and be stronger than me and I could be the feminine one. But not because I find them sexual attractive as such. But when I was about 10  I used to muck around with boys (be naked) but was not biased as I would have mucked around with a girl if there was one in my circle. So I think If the opportunity arises and I Can sustain an attraction and connection with a man I will kiss one. I find it so fascinating . (It's like catching a unicorn) It's like my own sexuality is a mystery to me and I am uncovering it . although 45 years on I need to get a move on.... lol.  When I think about me with a man I giggle.... How amazing this world is and these things we live inside.... out bodies...... Love to you all..... -Cloé
P.s. the best part about being a trans woman is I have now given my self permission to be whoever I am and try what ever I need to do express my inner most being......

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #31 on: October 28, 2018, 11:49:35 pm »
I was interested in women only, all my adult life, and am still only interested in females.  I consider myself to be a lesbian.  In fact, my psychologist is of the opinion that i was more female than male all my life (I am intersex), and because of this I was always a lesbian.  Fine with me, and hope that no hormones will change anything about this orientation!
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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #32 on: October 29, 2018, 09:47:05 am »
Why are you afraid. If there's no attraction now you might not ever be but once on hrt if you do become attracted you might not care. There's no shame in it. If you do have some talk with a therapist :)

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #33 on: October 29, 2018, 09:59:04 am »
I've wondered what would happen if I started hormone therapy. Even bigger implications for my marriage if I started being primarily attracted to men

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First and foremost, if you are committed to making your marriage work and perhaps through couples counseling and continued communication with her, that would be your priority.   
Being attracted to anyone else, man or woman would not be, should not be, a factor....   if you do some reading of others threads here of married transitioners you will discover that many the marriages that are still intact... not always successful but the successes here on the forums with our married members should be a good motive for you.

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Re: Me liking boys ever
« Reply #34 on: October 29, 2018, 06:48:22 pm »
I've wondered what would happen if I started hormone therapy. Even bigger implications for my marriage if I started being primarily attracted to men

I've been wondering the same thing lately as well.

For most of my life, I've only been attracted to women. Recently, though, when I've seriously been thinking of transitioning - and hormone therapy - I find myself thinking that I'd be attracted to some men. Or, at least, that would be a possibility, if I really, finally could see myself as female, instead of struggling with my identity as I do today. I wonder if I could resolve that struggle, and really, truly see myself as I want to be, if that would be true. And if I'd still be attracted to other women as well. I honestly don't know.

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