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No name in public this time.
« on: April 16, 2018, 12:37:31 am »
Hi, I had my account removed. I should have never made an account with my real name... I was fine until a few weeks ago and had a creep show up at my work place. He found me from my posts here and wanted to meet in person. He located me on Face Book, which I foolishly listed what I do for a living and used the same photo. Never again will I feel safe to post my image or name in the same combination. The creep is gone, amazing hey can I use your phone when chatting with him and taking down a few numbers can accomplish. Well I am back just not as who I was or would like to be. I will just go back to haunting the forums and donating when I can.

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Re: No name in public this time.
« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2018, 01:02:08 am »

Dear -M:( aka: 120716)   Thank you for posting.
I look forward to your future postings and replies on the various threads here on the Forums here.
I took the liberty of posting the informative and important LINKS below that will give you the rules and procedures here... you have probably already received this when you were a member here previously in the recent  past but I am posting it again for your convenience.
Thanks again for re-introducing yourself.

Best Wishes and I will be seeing you around the site.


Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:

Things that you should read
The Ramblings of a Northern*Star Girl
A New Chapter: ALASKAN DANIELLE's Chronicles
I am the HUNTED PREY: Danielle’s Chronicles
Things change re: ALASKAN DANIELLE
Positive Mindset... put away negativity

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Re: No name in public this time.
« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2018, 06:33:48 am »
It is very unfortunate that you had an unexpected visitor at your workplace. This is most likely the main reason many of us are in stealth mode post-op. You never know who is going to show up.

For myself, it took me several years before I could post my real picture.  I am out to family for personal reasons and I am out to trans friends because I feel a need to give back to our community, since so many others have helped me.


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Re: No name in public this time.
« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2018, 02:46:06 pm »
I should have stayed stealth, now I am paranoid when driving home from the office. My home address is not listed on my State Certification which is online. But no driving home from the office I stop at the store, the gym etc... I know what is 2017 Mustang Gt 350 looks like :) he also knows what my Sig Nightmare .45 Looks like. His poor wife thinks he lost his cell phone and I found it and dropped it by her work. I did not say a word to her, she was a nice sweet person and stunningly beautiful. She offered me money for dropping it by as those darn IPhones are expensive. I wish her the best with her <admirer> of a spouse.
I told him on FB chat was not interested, did not care what he did for a living, told him I was happy with my long time partner. I told him had no need for more friends and if he had questions about transition he could ask (he did not, just stated he found a slang term for transwomen HAWT, his words.)
So we go on with life, I a little more cautious he I hope with a little more sense.

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Re: No name in public this time.
« Reply #4 on: April 16, 2018, 11:57:08 pm »
Hi -M  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun


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