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Hi,
  My name is Jane. I have spent years on this channel. In the beginning as a closeted crossdresser than more and more thru time deciding transition...now I'm two years into transition. Have my SRS date, living full time for almost all those 2 years. When I finally decided do it, I went all in...once out, I was out. Laser, voice, etc...you guys don't realize it but I've been listening and taking from the support for a long time...never feeling worthy to join. But, now I've actually started noticing that so many posts I have good info and could help...but no account. So, here I am! Thank you for waiting!

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Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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  Here is me by the way...  https://imgur.com/WEfbMsy 


OK ONE more.. and that's it, I PROMISE! 

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Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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Hi Jane!

Fantastic pics! You look amazing! I look forward to reading your thoughts here. Those of us just starting out need all the help and support we can get.


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Thank You...If you are new and want encouragement? Here is a pic from before transition and didn't know squat about makeup!



How THAT for encouragement! LOL
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Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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Hi Jane  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that we offer to all new members to help them along


Things that you should read

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Thanks! I did read over the links...just want say, that one is part of dress top, although a bit revealing I had hoped in good taste...  :angel:


P.S. You are such a Rockstar VM, I've really enjoyed your input over the years especially..so cool to actually get a message sent to ME! *Otaku Moment*
Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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Thank You...If you are new and want encouragement? Here is a pic from before transition and didn't know squat about makeup!



How THAT for encouragement! LOL

That is encouraging. I appreciate that! I start HRT tomorrow so my "What ifs" and "Am I sures" are raging through my head haha.

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Hi Jane,
 I happen to be a largely closeted cross dresser. I present male at work as an engineer and look forward to home in the evening to wife & kids & wearing skirts or dresses. I have been on HRT for about a year & out to family & some friends.
 It's so great to see someone like yourself putting it out there. I hope you don't mind if I ask you the odd piece of advice.
 Kind regards, Kirsten.

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Hi Jane,
 I happen to be a largely closeted cross dresser......[con't]... I hope you don't mind if I ask you the odd piece of advice.
 Kind regards, Kirsten.

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  Hon, if that's really you in that pic, then you don't need it! That looks like either a cis female shot of how you dream of looking, or a immaculate ( not to mention expensive..) FFS job! All I can see being able afford is a chin reduction...I cover my cringy forehead that has brought enough tears to turn the Sahara into the Amazon with bangs...but my *bleep8ing CHIN! I take a decent frontal headshot, but from the SIDE! That and my nose are pointed at each other trying to out me everywhere I go! Traitors! LOL But hey, for real, PM me anytime! I have discovered a LOT of amazing things and some are very NSFW ...like how to achieve a female orgasm non-OP... how to get Prolactin built up for breast growth via inducing lactation without doing so so much as to get the *sag* if you stop...etc...thing I won't just OFFER because it's NSFW and a bit personal and it's the internet after all...I'm a pretty "up front chick, but I DO have my limits...just PM me anytime!
Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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Just tried to send a PM. Couldn't get through
 I would love to chat more

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Hi again Jane
I really did appreciate your message. I will reply in the next 24 hours. I wish I could pm
Kindest regards, Kirsten.

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Hi again Jane
I really did appreciate your message. I will reply in the next 24 hours. I wish I could pm
Kindest regards, Kirsten.

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@Kirsteneklund7
   
You need to look at the LINKS that @V M posted on her Welcome Message to you.

Look especially at the LINKS in Red....   the information there will explain why you can not PM yet....
 
Oh, and allow me to also Welcome You to Susan's Place.  This is a good place to explore your feelings and your life journey with others that have similar experiences.

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You need to look at the LINKS that @V M posted on her Welcome Message to you.

Look especially at the LINKS in Red....   the information there will explain why you can not PM yet....

Don't be too hard on her, I'm actually OP that got VM's links. @Kirsteneklund7 was replying.... .Unless she did one somewhere else? Dunno.. They were a good read and prompted me to get involved more to get those, rather quickly attained benefits...So you ARE right there!  ;D

Jane
Hi! This is Jane's filter! She sometimes forgets me, so since I'm here at the moment I thought I'd head off any conflict that I know she can, with best intentions, stir up. SO! If she just said something that has you fired up, then realize that she really means well and if you hold back just a bit and appeal to her heart and reason, then she's actually very unique in that she can accept differing opinions and very quick to admit when wrong and apologize if offends! Give her a try and it will end with you guys as total besties! I promise! Thanks!

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Hi again Jane J,
 getting a feel for how this site works. I'll send this message as a test.
 kindest regards, Kirsten.

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Hi again Jane,
 It seems I'm up and running.You asked if that was me in the picture. Yes it is.I was trying to upload my profile pic and it ended up in my reply post. That picture was taken with a filter though and day to day I simply don't pass. I would love to look as feminine as  my profile pic - and I am working on it with HRT, skincare , laser ect. I started HRT as a muscular 6" dude but these days 5'11" much more slender with b-cups. HRT definitely does take the hard edge of ones face though. Unfortunately i have a heavy jaw that would put a great white shark to shame. If I end up full time I will need FFS.
 I must admit I have enjoyed your entries on the site. Would love to correspond more. I could put up pics of me in work mode and en femme. *Warning*I do tend to look like a man in a dress though.
 Your pics show considerable feminisation from start to now. I hope I can achieve the same.
 Yours truly , Kirsten.   

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OK ONE more.. and that's it, I PROMISE! 



Damn, girl! You look awesome. It's time for you to move to the head of the class and start offering your advice to others on the forum that might wish to follow in your footsteps and want to know more about how you managed your transition.

With kindness,

Terri

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