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Offline Madeline

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I'm new here and unsure
« on: July 03, 2018, 03:12:26 pm »
Hi I am a boy who is considering, if that's even the right word, becoming transgender. If you are responding to me, please could you use female pronouns, as I just feel it would make me more comfortable.
Anyway, I see a lot of people online who say they have always felt like they were the other gender and were always certain but for me it seems different. I get that it's not gonna be black or white but sometimes I feel very strongly about changing genders and other times not at all. It's also still very new thoughts as although, i've briefly thought about this in the past, it's only recently within the last few weeks that I've really been taking them seriously and giving them some thought. I don't want to rush into things, but this website seemed like a safe place to talk and I wanted to see if others felt the same as me.

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Re: I'm new here and unsure
« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2018, 03:25:21 pm »
Hello Maria:  Thank you for your posting your introduction here in the Youth Forums.   .... and allow me to again Welcome You to Susan's Place.   You will find this a friendly place to discuss your transition concerns with other members that may be in a similar situation as yourself.   Please feel free to get involved in the Forums as much or as little as you feel comfortable doing.  As you get involved here you just may find that you will make some new like-minded friends here on Susan's Place.

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Offline Shanellax

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Re: I'm new here and unsure
« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2018, 11:48:08 pm »
Hiya Maria, I’m pretty much feeling the same as you mentioned in this post. It’s pretty much like the feelings come in flashes and it disappears and sometimes it carries on for a few more days continuously. I’m not sure if I am a transgender, simply if I am then that would just make me loose everything in life. Hope you’re doing well maria :)

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Re: I'm new here and unsure
« Reply #3 on: October 21, 2018, 07:31:22 am »
"Gender Euphoria" is something I only experience . . .
. . . when Life isn't busy making other plans for us!

Welcome companion "ladies in waiting"! ;) ;D
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"Why, there's hardly enough of me left to make one respectable person!"

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