Author Topic: Do you guys think my guy mode is failing? Starting to feel like I’m getting more stares at work. Wan  (Read 392 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Online Courtney.lane408

  • Friend
  • ****
  • Posts: 108
  • Reputation: +2/-0



Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Offline Daisy Jane

  • Friend
  • ****
  • Posts: 230
  • Reputation: +2/-0
  • Gender: Female
Yeah, you are well into male fail territory. Congrats, girl! Btw, I love your hair!

Offline VickyS

  • *
  • Posts: 155
  • Reputation: +2/-0
  • Gender: Female
God yes!  Total guy mode failure! Love it.  ;D ;D ;D
Came out to self: mid Oct 17                   Last haircut: 3rd Nov 17       
Came out to wife: 17th Jan 18                 Therapy started: 1st Mar 18
Electrolysis started: 10th Apr 18              Referred to GIC: 16th May 18

Offline KathyLauren

  • *
  • *
  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 4,233
  • Reputation: +46/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • Casting off dull certainty
If that's your guy mode, you are definitely in male fail!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly, beginning full-time; 2017-07-10 Legal name change

Offline krobinson103

  • *
  • Posts: 787
  • Reputation: +5/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • Life is a journey, and this phase is almost over!
Sorry to say total male fail. Maybe its time to consider going full time.

Congratulations!
Every day is a totally awesome day
Every day provides opportunities and challenges
Every challenge leads to an opportunity
Every fear faced leads to one more strength
Every strength leads to greater success
Success leads to self esteem
Self Esteem leads to happiness.
Cherish every day.

Online Courtney.lane408

  • Friend
  • ****
  • Posts: 108
  • Reputation: +2/-0
Wow really I feel like I’m so far away  I can’t see her at alll. I wish I was brave enough to go full time now the whole double life thing is hardd


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Offline krobinson103

  • *
  • Posts: 787
  • Reputation: +5/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • Life is a journey, and this phase is almost over!
Wow really I feel like I’m so far away  I can’t see her at alll. I wish I was brave enough to go full time now the whole double life thing is hardd


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

You have nothing to be worried about on that score. I also think your hair in those photos looks far more natural than the avatar photo. Maybe its time to ditch the wig? Muster up some bravery and show the world who you really are. Its worth it.
Every day is a totally awesome day
Every day provides opportunities and challenges
Every challenge leads to an opportunity
Every fear faced leads to one more strength
Every strength leads to greater success
Success leads to self esteem
Self Esteem leads to happiness.
Cherish every day.

Offline ErinJohnson

  • Newbie
  • **
  • Posts: 36
  • Reputation: +1/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • Possibilities
Do you guys think my guy mode is failing?
« Reply #7 on: July 17, 2018, 11:32:48 am »
Wow really I feel like I’m so far away  I can’t see her at alll. I wish I was brave enough to go full time now the whole double life thing is hardd


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Gotta say.  All I see is her.   ;D 
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes. - Oscar Wilde

Offline Charlie Nicki

  • Finally finding myself
  • *
  • Posts: 1,726
  • Reputation: +12/-0
  • Gender: Female
Total male fail hun. Like there's not a single trace of male in those pics...You might as well go full time right away.

Offline DawnOday

  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 2,534
  • Reputation: +26/-1
  • Gender: Female
  • Links Administrator
Honey. Where is the guy?
Dawn Oday

It just feels right   :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss:


If you have a a business or service that supports our community please submit for our Links Page.

First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
Start HRT Aug 2016
First public appearance 5/15/17




Offline randim

  • *
  • Posts: 53
  • Reputation: +2/-0
  • Gender: Questioning
You look lovely dear. And quite, quite female.

Offline KarynMcD

  • *****
  • *
  • Posts: 617
  • Reputation: +4/-0
  • Gender: Female
I wish I was brave enough to go full time now the whole double life thing is hard

Nobody is going to be surprised. Everyone is probably wondering what you are waiting for.

Offline JudiBlueEyes

  • Friend
  • ****
  • Posts: 294
  • Reputation: +5/-0
  • Gender: Female
Wow really I feel like I’m so far away  I can’t see her at alll. I wish I was brave enough to go full time now the whole double life thing is hard

That seems natural.  The crossing between gender prevention is a hard test.   

What's the old saying "fish see water last?"  We are so absorbed in our lives we don't see the changes.  I agree with everyone.  I can't see HIM at all.  You are certainly ready to go out with your natural hair showing.    I love the color!
Judi

Offline Stevie

  • *
  • Posts: 433
  • Reputation: +8/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • I think I'm a verb
 I see a happy woman.

Offline GordonG

  • *
  • Posts: 37
  • Reputation: +1/-0
  • Gender: Questioning
I'm a gender confused old man. I believe that I was influenced by DES. I have crossdressed in public a few times (my avatar picture which is doctored a little bit). But I also like being a guy, at least a feminine guy. I don't care for the testosterone driven sex drive as it has gotten me in trouble a few times. Hence I am on Spiro only right now, with a possibility of castration later.

Offline ErinWDK

  • Confused? Welcome!
  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 448
  • Reputation: +5/-0
  • Gender: Androgyne
  • A unique spin on UNIQUE!
If you want your guy mode to be convincing you need to put more work into it.  The pictures you have posted sure look like male fail.  If you can convince yourself to go full time IMHO you can make that work.

As others have said, I really like your real hair.

Go for it girl!


Erin

Offline Rachel

  • Family
  • *****
  • *
  • Posts: 6,288
  • Reputation: +47/-0
  • Gender: Female
Re: Do you guys think my guy mode is failing? Starting to feel like I’m
« Reply #16 on: July 17, 2018, 06:36:33 pm »
Male fail 100%.
HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
FFS   9-16-2016 -Spiegel
GCS 11-15-2016 - McGinn
Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
Dr. McGinn labiaplasty, hood repair, scar removal, graph repair and bottom of  vagina finished. 4-4-2018
Dr. Sataloff Glottoplasty 5-14-2018

Offline Sonja

  • *
  • Posts: 386
  • Reputation: +5/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • work in progress...
I'm confused, is there a guy in the background somewhere??   :laugh:

Sonja.

Online Bari Jo

  • Sorceress of Immense Nerd Power
  • *
  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 1,662
  • Reputation: +8/-0
  • Gender: Female
  • fear, shame, you won't own me forever!
Congrats, male fail to the max!   Yes full time is in your future.  I have zero male fail, yet I'm full time. Better that people know, imo.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different

Tags: