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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #560 on: July 18, 2020, 08:49:49 pm »
good luck and let us know how you are doing.

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #561 on: July 19, 2020, 05:11:36 pm »
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All the best, Stevi! I’m still dealing with after-affects of my surgery back in September. My case seems to be unusual, though. I’m sure you’ll have a much easier time than I have. I’ll be thinking of you on Monday!!

Sorry to hear that you have had a bit of a challenge with your recovery.

I appreciate your good thoughts for me.  I'll be reporting when I come out the other side.

Stevi

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #562 on: July 21, 2020, 01:29:09 pm »
Hello again Stevi. It has been a long while indeed. Wow yes, much as happened. First, let me congratulate you on winning your case against the gym. And second, I assume you are now in recovery? Wow hun! Congratulations again. Yes the COVID mess has been just that here in my neck of the woods. Closure after closure and beginning to wonder if at all this year that I will get to be a complete woman. I'm glad to hear some of us are still moving forward.

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #563 on: July 25, 2020, 02:14:05 pm »
Time for a proper update.

Penny and I arrived well before my 11am appointment.  The surgery was set for 1 pm.  It got delayed because the OR with the robot was in use still with an operation that went long.  I got into the room about 2:30.  The room was full of people.  This is a teaching hospital so every principal had two or three shadows.

They had to use ultrasound to find my veins for the two IV  ports.  Gave me a spinal block.  Lights out a little past 3 pm. Awake in my new living quarters at 11 pm.  Six hour operation.

I was warned the spinal block would wear off before 24 hours. The pain never came.  A little discomfort is all right up to now. Tuesday, Wednesday went great.  Up walking the halls, feeling good.  But, Thursday was bad.  Chills and profuse sweating.  Upset stomach and nausea.  Light headed.  My surgeon had concerns about a clot in my cht.  An EKG and an X-Ray in my bed.  The EKG was fine. The X-Ray did not show a clot but it did show a layer of air between my right lung and my rib cage.  Pulmonary specialists added to the mix.  Back on O2.  Hoping to help my body absorb the gas.  Another X-Ray, but in radiology.  Had to stand up for two images and get in and out of the gurney for transport.  Doable but not fun.

Yesterday was better.  Second X-Ray read showed no change. Nothing to do but watch.  Left me on O2 and monitored blood saturation.  100%. Still had stomach problems.  Managing that.

Packing came out yesterday.  A little ahead of schedule.  First dilation this morning.  Dr Roth, Penny and I in the room.  Went well.  No pain.  Good depth. Penny teased me about the girth, though.  P1.

There are a couple of labia drains that need to come out and the catheter tomorrow morning.  If urination is OK, I expect to go home later in the day. 

Home for now is a condo in Indianapolis.  We are staying in town till the 8th of August.  I have a follow-up on the 7th.

Feeling really good now.  No where near the pain I thought I would have.  After the surgery anesthesia, just a couple of Tylenol every twelve hours.

Pleased as puunch,
Stevi



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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #564 on: July 26, 2020, 06:34:45 pm »
I am home!  I am feeling good.  Tired. It has been a long day for both of us.  Awaken early.  Catheter out first thing.  Discharged and home at about 2:45. The hospital pharmacy was closed for Sunday.  We had to get the prescriptions filled on our own in an unfamiliar city.

Happy, tired, settling in,
Stevi

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #565 on: July 26, 2020, 07:46:24 pm »
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Wonderful GOOD NEWS report!!!!
I am so very happy and glad for you.


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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #566 on: July 26, 2020, 07:51:12 pm »
I am home!  I am feeling good.  Tired. It has been a long day for both of us.  Awaken early.  Catheter out first thing.  Discharged and home at about 2:45. The hospital pharmacy was closed for Sunday.  We had to get the prescriptions filled on our own in an unfamiliar city.

Happy, tired, settling in,
Stevi


Welcome back home.   :)
Do have a wonderful week ahead.  :)

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #567 on: July 27, 2020, 01:57:05 am »
Thank you, Danielle and Chrissy

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #568 on: July 30, 2020, 10:33:30 am »
Congratulations young LADY!

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #569 on: August 02, 2020, 11:15:17 am »
Amazing Stevi, glad it went well.

Regarding your peritoneal vaginoplasty surgery.  Do you still think this is the best option?  Did your age make getting this procedure difficult?  I'm 58 and I think it sounds like the best way to go, but it is still relatively new.

Thanks,
Paige :)

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« Reply #570 on: August 02, 2020, 02:57:58 pm »
Paige,

I have not a great deal of experience yet.  But I think there are a couple of pluses.   Though some of this will vary with individuals, I think some of it is inherent to the method.  I have full depth, already.   The cylinder they formed from the peritoneal tissue was pulled through and closed off way up there.  The peritoneal tissue was not entirely severed from my body.  They did not have to move any tissue from somewhere else (requiring it to establish a new blood supply) to give me that depth.  My penile tissue would not have done the task all by itself and given me much depth.

Pain from dilation is minimal.  Really none except I am testing moving up a size.  The stitches connecting the penile skin to the peritoneal tissue are still a little bit of a problem and will be, I suspect, until they have fully dissolved in a few more weeks.

So far, I am very happy with my choice.  It is not as new as you might think.  It is relatively new for us.  As I understand, the technique has been used previously for women lacking a vagina.  Not all that common but not unknown.

I just got back from an almost two mile walk.  Slow pace but no problem at all.

Tomorrow will be two weeks from my surgery and time to return to my little blue pills.

My biggest problem has been my body's thermoregulation system.  I tend to be cold-blooded on the best of days and the operation put me into a bit of shock, I think.   The one really bad day I did have was when my body's thermostat went through a reset.  Since then I have been fine.  That chilled to the bone feeling is gone.

So far, I have no reason to second guess my choice.  Ask me again in about thirty years when I am finished with it.  :)  >:-)

Stevi
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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #571 on: August 07, 2020, 09:32:17 pm »
Thanks so much for the reply Stevi.  The more I read about this method the more I'm convinced this should be the standard method.  Hopefully surgeons practicing the old technique will soon realize this.

One day hopefully I'll follow your lead.
Thanks again,
Paige :)

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #572 on: August 11, 2020, 02:28:18 pm »
Paige,

You are welcome.

I am a very healthy 70 yo.  I have never had any abdominal problems or trauma so that made me a good candidate.  I was warned that, in the event they could not get the peritoneal tissue they needed, they would use part of my bowel for the vagina lining.  Once the procedure was begun, some tissue source was going to have to be used.  There may be other options in other girl's situations.

I am still recovering well. I still get up and down a bit gingerly but I am mostly back to normal with moving around and living life.  Load restrictions of 10 lbs are still place but I am driving.  No baths or swimming, yet.  I have not had to use any narcotics for pain.  Down to 1000mg Tylenol twice a day.,  Probably will reduce or discontinue that soon.  Much of the swelling is down.  Stitches are still there but not too awfully annoying.  Some sensation in the clitoris but I can't call it pleasure at this point.  Too early to push the envelope on that yet, anyway.  I was/am concerned on that front since I had lost most sensation from a severe case of phimosis some years back.

Stevi

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Re: Stevi's Saga
« Reply #573 on: August 12, 2020, 07:51:01 am »
Hi Stevi,

It sounds like your recovery is going very well.  I'm so glad for you.

Thanks for the details. It really helps.  Hopefully one day I'll go through the same process. :)

Paige :)

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