Yes, by my father,
He was not happy about the fact that his son was becoming his daughter. I kinda expected it, as he was upset when I got my ears pierced and let my hair grow out, so when his son with long hair and pierced ears (He would have freaked if he knew I shaved my legs as well) came home to tell him that I was going to transition into a woman.
I was called a sissy and told my mother I was babied too much.
We never spoke again, as he was killed in a car accident a few months later. He never accepted his daughter.
I did put a lot of strain on the family, my mother stood by her man,. About a year after his death my mother reached to me and we did reconnect after a lot of talking.. Now we have a close mother daughter bond, she told me she felt it was her fault I was trans, as she told me she wished while she was pregnant with me that i would come out a girl. I remember that first meeting, I was so nervous, this was the first time she had ever seen me as noleen, I was over a year into hormones. so I had noticeable breasts (I think around C cup), my curves were noticeable. I remember i decided to dress not so in your face girly.. so jeans and a polar neck.. I did not want to show off cleavage, Only really girly stuff, was a pair high heel ankle boots, hoop earrings and my light makeup. I was so nervous, but I learnt so was she, I found out my mother smoked that day, and she found out I smoked too.. but when she hugged me and said, hello my girl.. I knew things would work out.
When my mother remarried, i was even a bridesmaid and when I got married, my step father walked me down the aisle. OK, my step father does not know I was born a boy, nor do my step siblings, by the time they came into our lives.. I was way down the lane into my transition and could not pass as a male even if I wanted to.
I am very private about my past, My husband, my best friend and my mother are the only people that know my past.
