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Offline Jessica_K

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Had a wonderful day today and...
« on: March 15, 2019, 03:01:33 pm »
..hoping the weekend will be even better.

This week was the week I started to come out to all my clients and companies I work with, and
today was the first day I met a client as my true self and all the time I was correctly gendered, she, her, Jessica as we worked on a lighting product. It was awesome.

The day before I spoke to the tech director of the company I do most of my work for and as everyone I have spoken to he was very supportive. I was concerned that they may think that their clients would be an issue, he said he would speak to the MD

Well during today while I was having fun working on the processor code used to control the lighting I got a phone call from the TD. He said he had spoken to the MD and HR and everything is OK for me to present as female to all clients and he will break the ice with all the current projects clients. I am totally over the moon.

Those that know my home situation will know I cannot currently be myself at home, but now I can go to my office get changed and spend the whole day regardless of where I am going or going to see as ME.

This is only the start of the weekend. Tomorrow I am going to a meeting of a group of HiFi enthusiasts, with a forum meet followed by a show on Sunday. This means a hotel stay where I can be Me all weekend

This is such exciting time

Love Jessica



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Re: Had a wonderful day today and...
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2019, 03:55:56 pm »
Train ride with no brakes, no stopping you now. Hope you have a fun weekend.
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Re: Had a wonderful day today and...
« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2019, 01:50:51 am »
Thanks Divinia. I guess this has been an awesome week with the weekend being the cherry on the top. Had my nails done this time a bolder shiny chocolate brown so no blending the colour to hide I have polish on. Had my first waxing (that hurt) and went shopping trying on the clothes which was a good thing as I am now a size 12UK. It is as if a switch has flipped and I have no fears or concerns to be the woman I have hiding for so long.

Is this a effect of being on E for nearly a month?
The buzz is as if I was on drugs. Well I am guessing that as, and this is the truth, I have never taken any other than alcohol and caffeine and I do little of the former.

Jessica

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Re: Had a wonderful day today and...
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2019, 01:35:28 am »
I hoped yesterdays meet-up would be good But it was not, good as a word does not come near to the unbelievable fantastic day I had. I now have two cis-women girlfriends where we girl talked to 1 in the morning. They gave me huge confidence, was not mid-gendered once. I was one of the girls.

One of the comments stick in my mind “last year” (Before I started this road to transition) she said “we spoke for a few mins talking about hifi, this year we have talked for hours and swapped our life stories”

I have no words to explain what a high I am on

Jessica


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