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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #200 on: May 16, 2020, 11:30:20 am »
Nice Maddie. Forest gives you energy.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #201 on: May 16, 2020, 08:25:53 pm »
Hi, I did about 3 miles today and I think I will do 5 miles tomorrow. It was warm today. I saw some big carp in the creek; there were a lot of people fishing for trout. The stream is stocked.

I agree, the woods regenerates you. I have some great pics of a mama fox.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #202 on: May 17, 2020, 12:51:04 am »
Rachel. I also take pics of everything. Small and big.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #203 on: May 31, 2020, 04:18:33 am »
It is 20 degrees out. Today is the first time I will go outside in shorts - without shaving my legs. Goals!

I wear a binder. My voice gives me away. But that’s the way it is now. Stuck in the middle-world.

Me and my oldest son will go on a trip to hear about spies and Swedish war history. 4-5 hours.


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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #204 on: May 31, 2020, 11:37:14 am »
Hello from across middle world Tony

Congratulations on progress to your goals. ( Shorts...).
May the beard you shared before continue to fill in, it suits you.

Enjoy the man time with your son

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #205 on: May 31, 2020, 12:28:46 pm »
Thank you.

It went well. Was a bit confusing to start with. I was checked off at the list of visitors. The guy looked surprised at me when I told him my female name that I had told him beforehand.
But then just said ”ok”.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #206 on: May 31, 2020, 01:52:30 pm »
It’s because I have not legally changed my name yet.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #207 on: June 11, 2020, 11:18:18 pm »
Yesterday HR started chatting with me. She was curious about how my transition goes. If I needed help and she said I am brave to do this, to be true to myself.

It feels good to have HR keeping my back.


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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #208 on: June 22, 2020, 04:43:33 pm »
Have not shaved my legs since last summer. Been walking around in shorts for lie a month. Noone has commented anything. It’s just all in my head.



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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #209 on: June 27, 2020, 09:23:17 am »
Found a cool filter on Snap. Can’t wait for this. Patience. Patience. The beard is growing. This might be reality next year.


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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #210 on: June 27, 2020, 09:28:05 am »
Found a cool filter on Snap. Can’t wait for this. Patience. Patience. The beard is growing. This might be reality next year.



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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #211 on: June 27, 2020, 12:22:43 pm »
Yes, waiting for the beard to fill in. Takes such patience. Such a quintessentially male thing to go through! Just the waiting alone makes you one of the guys! I'm sure you'll be happy with it before long.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #212 on: June 28, 2020, 03:35:52 pm »
I hope it grows fast.

I am going the opposite way.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #213 on: July 02, 2020, 04:37:18 am »
Registered myself at the barber shop. The barber had to help me out. Did not understad what to do. He helped me out. So now I am registered as a man.

He ticked the ”man box” without hesitation.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #214 on: July 02, 2020, 09:11:34 am »
Ok, registering at the barber. I've not heard of that before. Is it because of covid? Or is the barber your medical provider like in the old days (back when I was young )?

Anyway congrats on that and on being seen as your true self

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #215 on: July 02, 2020, 12:38:05 pm »
Membership or something. They register customers that don’t come at drop in. I booked a time for my hair cut.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #216 on: July 02, 2020, 01:45:26 pm »
Have not shaved my legs since last summer. Been walking around in shorts for lie a month. Noone has commented anything. It’s just all in my head.

Tony, how much do you notice other people in public? If you notice something odd about someone, do you care?

I'm convinced the answer is no for nearly everybody. It's rare for someone to comment about me, and when they do, it becomes clear that they were afraid to say anything in case it offended me.

That must be pushing your confidence through the roof, which is great!
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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #217 on: July 02, 2020, 11:36:07 pm »
Ellie. Thank you. It’s my mom’s voice in my head. ”You can’t go out like THAT!!” She has forced me to shave. This was some years ago, but stuff sometimes gets stuck. Annoying.

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #218 on: July 10, 2020, 03:37:49 pm »
Glad you are free to not shave Tony!

Congratulations for bring automatically checked in the man box.  Not surprised

That filter photo is an exciting preview  :)

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Re: Tony’s T travel
« Reply #219 on: July 26, 2020, 01:25:00 pm »
They say that you feelings are reflected in other people.

There is this dude, who tries to control me. He pushes all my buttons and I get annoyed and feel like I don’t want to be close to him.

We don’t know each other very well. I don’t let him control me. But yet he tries. On messenger and facebook.

I don’t know why I get so annoyed. I could just let it be. Not care. But I do care.

I wonder how he can make me have all these negative feelings.

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