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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #40 on: November 14, 2019, 09:24:00 am »
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The heart wants what it wants ... :)  Hope it all works out for you.  Good luck!
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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #41 on: November 16, 2019, 12:00:24 pm »
At first, i m glad that i jpoined your lovely site....well, when i put on my strings and pantyhose , i  m always thinking of men inside me...

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #42 on: November 16, 2019, 12:12:03 pm »
At first, i m glad that i jpoined your lovely site....well, when i put on my strings and pantyhose , i  m always thinking of men inside me...
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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #43 on: November 16, 2019, 12:13:17 pm »
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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #44 on: November 22, 2019, 07:26:15 pm »
Good question! I definitely seem to have different feelings when dressed as a woman. Also, the hormones may now be enhancing the feelings but still have not acted on them. I think it is all part of the feminine experience and wanting to be treated as woman.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #45 on: December 03, 2019, 07:57:34 am »
Another update:
OK, it's now clear that dressed or masc I've incorporated gynephilic pansexuality into my sexual attraction/ fantasy/ inorganic psychsexuality life.  Maybe cross dressing changed me, or unlocked something, or it was just a sort of co-incidence.  Dunno, but it's all fine.  Quite fun, tbh.  :)

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #46 on: December 28, 2019, 05:36:34 pm »
When I am dressed as Jenn thoughts of being with a guy go thru my head, is this common? Do others have the same thought?

Yes they can pop in there occasionally.  Don't think I would necessarily seek them out, but then again...well that's a diff topic ;D

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #47 on: January 08, 2020, 12:00:37 pm »
yes Jenn i do think about men the moment I put those thigh highs on, and,the very moment I go back to guy dressing i cannot stand the idea of sex with a man.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #48 on: January 08, 2020, 02:49:51 pm »
I hesitate to post this, as it is so kinky and the post might get deleted.

When dressed, I really desire to nurse a man on my breast. I dream of suckling and fondling him.

I have had such a lover in the past, but I was so flat then that he gave up on me. But I have got the girly equipment now!

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #49 on: January 16, 2020, 02:02:20 pm »
yep, I think about it too. I agree with an earlier reply when she said it was partially about validation. For me, its the thought of a man looking at me as a female and wanting me as a female. It's usually where my mind goes when I fantasize but outside of that I have no attraction to men whatsoever. I have never looked at a man and thought to myself.. wow... I could see myself with him...
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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #50 on: January 16, 2020, 05:12:23 pm »
No.
Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that your speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #51 on: February 03, 2020, 02:15:43 pm »
I never did when I was younger and dressed but as I have gotten older, I often think about being with a man when in femme mode.  The most amazing thing to me is they aren't just sexual fantasies but romantic ones. Thats is not to say they don't sometimes involve sex but I also fantasize about dating a man or being courted by a man, being out in public with my boyfriend, holding hands, kissing, etc.  Must have watched too many Hallmark movies :)

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #52 on: February 13, 2020, 06:20:29 pm »
I sure do think of men when I’m in lingerie and hose. Nothing quite as erotic as being taken as a woman. I have breast development, fill out a bra nicely. Have experienced this a handful of times. And it’s some of the best sex I’ve ever had. Exquisite to be submissive, to embrace the female row.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #53 on: February 17, 2020, 03:20:11 pm »
I agree, being submissive and dressed in impossibly sexy underware is so delightful.

I love being fondled and inducing a heavy latch.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #54 on: February 17, 2020, 03:49:30 pm »
No.  This has not been the case for me.


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Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that your speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #55 on: May 28, 2020, 09:54:18 am »
I feel like it's natural and has more to do with feeling associated with being a woman.
It happens to me too...but not strictly men... I'm more of a lesbian but also sometimes fantasize about having sex with men

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #56 on: June 02, 2020, 08:16:56 am »
Hi All,

So it has been almost a full year since I posted this originally back in 2019. Since then I have had several experiences with men. The most recent with with a very nice guy prior to the COVID thing keeping everyone at home. I felt very natural as my feminine self and being with him was a wonderful experience. Yes, I still am attracted to women as well but nice to know that I can feel comfortable with a man too.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #57 on: June 06, 2020, 06:09:50 pm »
Was only wanting to wear womens shoes and skirts until recently , now i cross dressing more and more ( partially n public)and cant wait until thing get back to normal, so i can attend Sweet  Wednesdays CD and Trans *** club.Long B4 lock down I almsot went there as a guy few times just to see but always chickened out. Now want to go dressed and  you know what happens next haha I have always  considered my self straight guy though.lol

Now even fantasise of having a part time BF, when im in girl mode. Im still new to all this, so maybe its just a sily/passing fantasy, so I dont know. :S

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #58 on: June 06, 2020, 08:53:06 pm »
Was only wanting to wear womens shoes and skirts until recently , now i cross dressing more and more ( partially n public)and cant wait until thing get back to normal, so i can attend Sweet  Wednesdays CD and Trans *** club.Long B4 lock down I almsot went there as a guy few times just to see but always chickened out. Now want to go dressed and  you know what happens next haha I have always  considered my self straight guy though.lol

Now even fantasise of having a part time BF, when im in girl mode. Im still new to all this, so maybe its just a sily/passing fantasy, so I dont know. :S
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A New Chapter: ALASKAN DANIELLE's Chronicles
I am the HUNTED PREY: Danielle’s Chronicles
Things change re: ALASKAN DANIELLE
Positive Mindset... put away negativity

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #59 on: June 06, 2020, 08:54:16 pm »
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Dear FlatsLover92:

OH, another thing....  Please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to tell more members about yourself!
 
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NOTE: Now, after all of this Greeting and Welcoming stuff, I will give you and others the thread back so that the conversation can continue.


Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
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I am the HUNTED PREY: Danielle’s Chronicles
Things change re: ALASKAN DANIELLE
Positive Mindset... put away negativity

Started HRT:   March 2015
Went Full-Time    December 2016
Quit my male-mode job and relocated to a very small town in Alaska in January 2017
I'm a blonde, blue eyed woman, Age 40

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