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Offline MelissaCD

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #60 on: August 01, 2020, 11:11:45 am »
I too have similar feelings.  When dressed I feel like I want to be desired by men but when not dressed I don’t have the same feelings.    I know there are different stages to dressing one goes through.   I’m not sure if this appropriate but with toys I imagine a man.    Strange and confusing feelings but I try to be open to them.

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #61 on: August 01, 2020, 07:49:53 pm »
Not in a sexual way, that is, I am not attracted to men.

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Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others

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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #62 on: August 01, 2020, 11:56:11 pm »
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Re: Thinking about men when dressed?
« Reply #63 on: August 02, 2020, 03:01:07 pm »
It is perfectly normal to think about men when dressed out, even you do not actually feel you like men. Social constructs are so penetrating on every one of us, our psyche automatically tends to think we are to like men when we are dressed like a woman. I think if you keep trying your psyche will adjust and you will able to figure out if you really like men or not.