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MunaFan86:
as in emotional and being lonely does someone eventually find someone?

Make97:
The way I see it, you don't just meet people, you have to search for them a little. I was lonely, most of my adult life, but now married to most loving man. All because I made an effort to get to know him. I still don't have that much friends but quality is more important than number of friends me thinks. Hugs for you, I really hope it gets easier for you!

SarahEL:
There is an old adage,   Don't ask for friendships, be friendly and they will appear....

 I believe it works in ALL relationships.. It did for me!

Sophiaprincess2019:

--- Quote from: MunaFan86 on June 26, 2019, 11:15:39 pm ---as in emotional and being lonely does someone eventually find someone?

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I think this question really depends on whether or not you are ready to meet someone. Generally people tend to shy away from those who appear broken or in distress. When I'm actively "looking" or open to the idea of dating, I seek  men who are over their ex, have their stuff (life) together and willing to out forth the effort to develop a relationship. I'm pretty in tune with detecting if someone has issues with their confidence and I don't feel it's my place to rescue or help those who need to be consoled since I'm not a professional therapist, nor do I seek to be one in my romantic relationships. I want a man who is my equal, my partner in life, my friend, lover, but mine overall.

You'll find someone when you're ready; like anything, it's going to take time!


Sophia

Northern Star Girl:

--- Quote from: SarahEL on October 17, 2020, 08:03:43 am ---There is an old adage,   Don't ask for friendships, be friendly and they will appear....

 I believe it works in ALL relationships.. It did for me!

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@SarahEL
Dear Sarah:
Yes indeed:   
"If you want friends, be friendly,  Be the first to say hello and to greet, and even start a casual conversation."

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere." (This is found on my good forum's friend profile, @Jessica)
HUGS,
Danielle

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