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As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #40 on: April 15, 2023, 02:23:53 pm »
I had a recurring dream this week that I was a college senior again; but this time as myself in all the ways it should have been.  In a sorority, not a fraternity, too.  Size eight with boundless energy and a beautiful smile and heart.

As part of this dream it was interesting to see how my life could have been.

Have you had this sort of dream?


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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #41 on: April 15, 2023, 03:00:56 pm »
Not with that clarity of my identity. I have had dreams that I was a woman but I had no idea what I looked like, just that I was a woman. Here recently I have been having dreams that I have turned my back on myself and I see myself in a mirror and my head is shaved again. I've had that happen a couple of times this month and it woke me up in tears, where the other always had me waking up smiling and humming a song. I sure could use one of those sometime soon!

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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #42 on: April 16, 2023, 01:10:49 am »
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 15, 2023, 02:23:53 pm
I had a recurring dream this week that I was a college senior again; but this time as myself in all the ways it should have been.  In a sorority, not a fraternity, too.  Size eight with boundless energy and a beautiful smile and heart.

As part of this dream it was interesting to see how my life could have been.

Have you had this sort of dream?


Chrissy


Wow, yes.

Not just a REM sleep dream. It's my daytime living dream.

I recognise that we have to move forward. For those of us with children it's impossible to re-imagine a world without those beautiful gifts. But, and it's a big but, it's also lovely to wonder what might have been.

So that spills into sleep sometimes, where REM dreams work with our subconscious thoughts.

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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #43 on: April 16, 2023, 01:16:43 am »
I have 4 types of dreams.
Often I am an observer with no interaction, like watching a film
Then I have ones where I am in the dream always as myself female.
Then a few where I am in surgery having GRS to become female.
Finally I have work related dreams where solutions to problems I am trying to solve come to me and I wake up with answers. I know I have had these dreams but I only remember the solutions.

I only have one daydream that of getting surgery

Ok I am strange lol
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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #44 on: April 16, 2023, 05:26:38 am »
Quote from: Jessica_K on April 16, 2023, 01:16:43 am
I have 4 types of dreams.
Often I am an observer with no interaction, like watching a film
Then I have ones where I am in the dream always as myself female.
Then a few where I am in surgery having GRS to become female.
Finally I have work related dreams where solutions to problems I am trying to solve come to me and I wake up with answers. I know I have had these dreams but I only remember the solutions.

I only have one daydream that of getting surgery

Ok I am strange lol


I have learned to keep pencil and paper nearby to try to record the details of these solutions as they can disappear for me if not quickly written down after awakening.

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Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others. 

It is not usually about how fast you transition, it is about how well you transition.   .

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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #45 on: April 16, 2023, 06:41:59 am »
In almost all of my dreams that I can remember, I am a featureless observer, neither male or female, human or other species. I feel that I am some sort of Cosmic Soul, if that makes sense. Sometimes I just observe, but on occasion, I interact within my dream scenario.  ::)

I do have conscious thoughts, which some people call daydreams, but I prefer to refer them as planning sessions. My transition was one those planning sessions. Dreams can and sometimes do come true.  ;D
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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #46 on: April 16, 2023, 07:06:30 pm »
6 years ago, well before I even started to transition, I had a dream about getting married. It was very vivid and I was in a dress!..  bizarre at the time as my gender issues were mainly hidden . However, on entering the church I saw my betrothed standing at the alter.. his back towards me but unmistakably dressed in a blue service uniform..  I had no idea what uniform it was but had a very good mental recollection of it and wrote about the whole thing in detail in my daily journal..
Fast forward 4 years.. and I meet this guy... he is associated with the USAF.. On telling him my dream, he shows me a page of air force uniforms.. unbeknownst to me, his uniform is very distinctive for his rank. I look them over and 2nd row down second uniform fits what I saw exactly.. "that one". I say.... his silence is palpable.. eventually he says.. 'Yes, that's my dress uniform'....
I also explained what the door of the church looks like and the interior.. I have yet to see the place we actually are going to get married in.. but, I am pretty sure it is going to be as I describe...
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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #47 on: April 17, 2023, 05:18:27 pm »
Quote from: SarahEL on April 16, 2023, 07:06:30 pm
6 years ago, well before I even started to transition, I had a dream about getting married. It was very vivid and I was in a dress!..  bizarre at the time as my gender issues were mainly hidden . However, on entering the church I saw my betrothed standing at the alter.. his back towards me but unmistakably dressed in a blue service uniform..  I had no idea what uniform it was but had a very good mental recollection of it and wrote about the whole thing in detail in my daily journal..
Fast forward 4 years.. and I meet this guy... he is associated with the USAF.. On telling him my dream, he shows me a page of air force uniforms.. unbeknownst to me, his uniform is very distinctive for his rank. I look them over and 2nd row down second uniform fits what I saw exactly.. "that one". I say.... his silence is palpable.. eventually he says.. 'Yes, that's my dress uniform'....
I also explained what the door of the church looks like and the interior.. I have yet to see the place we actually are going to get married in.. but, I am pretty sure it is going to be as I describe...


Sarah,


Interesting, that is.

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Be a good example of good behavior.  Always be kinder than needed.  Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that you speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.  Serve others.

Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others. 

It is not usually about how fast you transition, it is about how well you transition.   .

I am a brown eyed brunette.

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« Reply #48 on: April 22, 2023, 12:56:32 pm »
I just feel so naturally uber feminine today.  That is delightful, the way it should be.

I hope your day is going wonderfully!


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Be a good example of good behavior.  Always be kinder than needed.  Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that you speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.  Serve others.

Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others. 

It is not usually about how fast you transition, it is about how well you transition.   .

I am a brown eyed brunette.

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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #49 on: May 02, 2023, 05:12:21 pm »
Of course, I often have erotic dreams where I am in a woman's body. I awaken to discover my male body is activated!
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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #50 on: May 11, 2023, 04:14:22 pm »
I have had dreams and nightmares of/while being a women. A few times I have woken up panicked and sweating but do not recall why.
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« Reply #51 on: May 11, 2023, 07:08:05 pm »
I started having a semi-recurring dream as a child. Something like me, in a pink dress, standing at a make up table. If I'd known I'd be having it all this time later, I'd have paid more attention to when it started. Maybe 10ish and it freaked me out. The outfit has changed. albeit usually pink.. and the frequency has varied. It became familiar at some point. Been a few months maybe since the last one..

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« Reply #52 on: May 14, 2023, 02:30:05 pm »
I have had more recently more dreams about being a CIS woman from birth.
Life would be less complicated if that were true, that is for sure.


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Be a good example of good behavior.  Always be kinder than needed.  Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that you speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.  Serve others.

Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others. 

It is not usually about how fast you transition, it is about how well you transition.   .

I am a brown eyed brunette.

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Re: As a mtf, have you ever had dreams related to transitioning or being a woman?
« Reply #53 on: May 14, 2023, 05:04:22 pm »
In the last 5 years or so, in my dreams I usually do not view
myself so I do really "see" how I appear, but my experiences
and encounters in my dreams are definitely female oriented.

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