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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #20 on: November 09, 2019, 12:40:44 am »
From what I've heard, they will!

Push up bras are designed specifically to create cleavage, btw.

I wear sports bras most of the time but have a 16b (38b) pushup bra which gives me great shape on my right breast, but my left breast isn't quite up to the task, so no cleavage yet. (unless I squish them together, but that used to work quite well before HRT!). So for the past decade, using breast forms I had a nice cleavage, but I can't wear my forms over my breasts because it hurts!

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #21 on: November 09, 2019, 12:40:58 am »
Not with my boobs, each of them would be pushed up individually, and what are erogenous zones?  Mine seem not to have that as part of their planning!  My girls are just there, hurting from time to time, and are always in the way.
I have seen enough models, who have even less of a cleavage than I have!  Not having one is not a big deal for me!


Supposedly, there's push up bras specifically designed for women with wide-set boobs.
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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #22 on: November 09, 2019, 01:56:35 am »
Heya,

I stumbled upon a website that has collected a gallery of "what normal boobs look like" to fight the over-sexualized porn star image that gets portrayed in media.
I looked through it, and I think it might really help some of you self-esteem wise to see all the variations that cis women's boobs come in, many of which are the same thing as variations that trans women get dysphoric about growing. Boobs are boobs! They all look different and almost all women are self conscious about them.

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #23 on: November 09, 2019, 09:10:47 am »

Supposedly, there's push up bras specifically designed for women with wide-set boobs.
I have one that pushes up and over from the armpits to the middle.  But even this thing can not provide me with a decent cleavage, but it makes me hurt after a few hours!


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #24 on: November 09, 2019, 09:17:38 am »
Heya,

I stumbled upon a website that has collected a gallery of "what normal boobs look like" to fight the over-sexualized porn star image that gets portrayed in media.
I looked through it, and I think it might really help some of you self-esteem wise to see all the variations that cis women's boobs come in, many of which are the same thing as variations that trans women get dysphoric about growing. Boobs are boobs! They all look different and almost all women are self conscious about them.

- Parker  :) :)
Yes, they are!  My daughter (adopted) is pretty well endowed.  She always tells me she wish she would have my boobs, because they look like the ones of an 18 year old teenager (she says).  I can't recall if the male world has anything similar to dream of.  The only thing I can think of is the bulge in your underwear, but there it always was: the bigger, the better (I was never much in the runing with my XX genitals  :embarrassed:)


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How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #25 on: November 10, 2019, 01:52:55 pm »
Thank you for all the comments about cleavage development timelines.   :)

I do not want to get very big breasts because I heard it hurts your back over time.

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #26 on: November 10, 2019, 03:07:08 pm »
Thank you for all the comments about cleavage development timelines.   :)

I do not want to get very big breasts because I heard it hurts your back over time.

Chrissy
I was around 50 or so lesbian women last night, most of them did not have cleavage, or if so, just a little bit!  Most of them did not have that hourglass shape either, and only three or four had some visible pelvic tilt!


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #27 on: November 10, 2019, 03:18:24 pm »
I was around 50 or so lesbian women last night, most of them did not have cleavage, or if so, just a little bit!  Most of them did not have that hourglass shape either, and only three or four had some visible pelvic tilt!

Sounds like a nice sized gathering.  I want people to notice I have breasts, they do not have to become large.  Cleavage sounds very feminine but frankly I would likely not expose the tops of them very often in a dress or top.  Might be nice to be able to though.   :)

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #28 on: November 10, 2019, 03:28:47 pm »
Sounds like a nice sized gathering.  I want people to notice I have breasts, they do not have to become large.  Cleavage sounds very feminine but frankly I would likely not expose the tops of them very often in a dress or top.  Might be nice to be able to though.   :)

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I was wearing the same top as I am wearing in the avatar picture, and even though the flower pattern muddles the contours a little, one can clearly see that I have breasts

This was taken when I had a good 40 B size (I lately migrated to a 40 C)


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #29 on: November 12, 2019, 12:47:03 am »
Hi Chrissy!

For me it was about 7-8 months before i got a good size 34B I am now about a 34 C at 11 months I am also 25

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #30 on: February 02, 2020, 10:21:31 am »
Sigh.

Maybe one day, real cleavage for me!


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #31 on: February 02, 2020, 11:05:33 am »
Sigh.

Maybe one day, real cleavage for me!


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #32 on: February 02, 2020, 11:25:13 am »
Junior's tops are often cut to show you have breasts without showing cleavage. 

VS and PINK are two distinctly different brands.  Cleavage is obviously a factor if you compare the models for two brands.

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #33 on: July 12, 2020, 11:15:52 am »
Well, if I push them tightly together, I can get a meager illusion of cleavage!

   :)  :)


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #34 on: July 12, 2020, 12:24:50 pm »
It was at least 18 months before I managed cleavage I reckon  - even then it took a really good push-up bra.
I’m quite happy with my b cup now though
It’s something that had occurred to me a few times that boobs start out being such a focus for early days of mtf hormones but soon become just one part of the package and not the most important for me. Xxx



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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #35 on: July 12, 2020, 03:25:51 pm »
As  @ChrissyRyan  and  @Pammie   eluded to in their reply comments, a good push up bra will be very helpful...  and there are some push up bras that do a better job of helping with the cleavage issue.    Look for wider side banding that helps to keep the girls pushed toward each other.   

In my own experience, after a little over a year of HRT I had developed a B Cup, and I could display cleavage with the right bra, then after a little more than 2 years i had a C Cup I could show cleavage without all the extra help. 

I started HRT in March of 2015 so now after 5 years my girls have gotten slightly fuller and showing cleavage is a regular event...
....but fortunately still a C Cup.   With my active lifestyle I don't want them any larger!

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #36 on: September 05, 2020, 06:04:34 pm »
Well if I push them together I can get cleavage.   :)

Pseudo cleavage I guess!


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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #37 on: September 06, 2020, 08:26:01 am »
With lots of experiments I was able to create very convincing cleavage prior to HRT.  Which was funny, because when I did finally change my hormones it first caused my pec muscles to shrink considerably and I lost the ability to create any cleavage.  But now after several years of HRT I can again, but this time it is with real boobs.  Oh if anyone really cares about it, I'm pretty sure that in my blog somewhere buried are the posts I did on my method back in my cross dressing days. 

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #38 on: September 19, 2020, 07:36:40 am »
While I still do not really have the cleavage I would like, at least what I do have does help in affirming my body changing over time.  I wish that I have had my breasts all my life. 

Have a nice weekend!

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Always be kinder than needed.  Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that your speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.

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Re: How long did it take for you to get cleavage?
« Reply #39 on: September 19, 2020, 11:59:55 am »
I'm around a 36B/C at this point, but I have the dreaded wide-set breasts / large ribcage. So the cleavage is almost non-existent. A bra does help a lot, and especially if I wear some smaller underwire B cups, you'll get some cleavage.

That being said, I am much like @Northern Star Girl in that I am physically active and really don't want to deal with large breasts on a day-to-day basis, so I am not planning to get BA. I'm hoping that I get a little more growth over the next few years, but if my boobs don't grow anymore and I don't get much full-time cleavage, it's fine.

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