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Offline Pammie

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #180 on: August 16, 2020, 12:14:39 pm »
I was enjoying lunch and something squirted out the sandwich and made three spots on my new long curvy back T-shirt.  Perhaps I need a bib.  So I have it soaking with something that is applied to it before you are to wash it.   But I had just washed it and dried it. 

I feel silly.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #181 on: November 26, 2020, 02:35:30 am »
I got 'sir'd at the bank today, & it really seemed purposeful. Usually not bothered by passing/not passing, but this time...sucked. It was a bad day.
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #182 on: November 26, 2020, 03:33:08 am »
I got 'sir'd at the bank today, & it really seemed purposeful. Usually not bothered by passing/not passing, but this time...sucked. It was a bad day.
Sorry to read that hun - sending hugs! Xx


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #183 on: November 27, 2020, 04:14:56 am »
The thought that it will be at least a year since I would  see my grandson in person. Due to the lockdown restrictions I will not be able to see him at Christmas. Was hoping that I would have got to see him under the old rule of 6 after national lockdown ended but restrictions will be worse. Had a cry yesterday

At least I see him every day on FaceTime but it is not the same as spending a day with him


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #184 on: November 27, 2020, 05:24:53 am »
I am with you on that one, not seen any of my kids or grand kids since lockdown in March. Not expecting to see any one over Christmas as they will be in there own bubbles.
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #185 on: November 27, 2020, 05:48:05 am »
I am with you on that one, not seen any of my kids or grand kids since lockdown in March. Not expecting to see any one over Christmas as they will be in there own bubbles.
Yes, im the same. My 8 grandkids are 130 miles away snd will have their own bubbles. Pre lockdown I was there every weekend helping look after my 2 youngest grandsons - my Siobhan’s little boys - and now nothing


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #186 on: December 08, 2020, 10:49:55 am »
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #187 on: December 09, 2020, 08:24:30 pm »


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   December 21, which is only 12 days away, is postponed due to Covid-19. AGAIN

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #188 on: December 10, 2020, 12:55:04 pm »
@Ann Jolene:
Dear Ann Jolene:
I am saddened to read of your surgery delay.  This Covid thing is raising havoc with all of our schedules.

Did you get a new proposed surgery date that you can write on your calendar? ???
Hang in there and please keep us all updated.

To that point, if you feel so inclined perhaps your could start your own member personal blog/journal thread like I and many other members have done here on the Forums. 
It would be wonderful for me and the rest of your followers to be able to find your "home here on the Forums" so we can keep updated regarding your transition journey progress.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #189 on: December 10, 2020, 08:46:42 pm »

@ Northern Star Girl:
Dear Danielle:
 It is no surprise that you replied to my post and the manner in which you have done. You are such a kind and thoughtful person. Thank you.
 I do follow your ramblings and the blogs of others here. You are inspirational and thank you for all you do here.
 Have to laugh at the thought of "the rest of my followers", but once I get the new date I will have something to write about.  ???

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #190 on: December 12, 2020, 06:34:57 am »
Waiting for my package takes too long, I feel like I'm wasting a day.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #191 on: December 12, 2020, 06:46:58 am »
Waiting for my package takes too long, I feel like I'm wasting a day.

Yes, this reminds me of long queues.  Or which queue to pick to get into to be able to pay for your goods.
It can be a guessing game.  You can be in a short line then the cashier needs to wait for a supervisor to give an approval or a price lookup, and so on, so you have a longer wait than being in a longer queue.  Time wasters they can be!

All well.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #192 on: December 12, 2020, 06:49:09 am »
Yes, this reminds me of long queues.  Or which queue to pick to get into to be able to pay for your goods.
It can be a guessing game.  You can be in a short line then the cashier needs to wait for a supervisor to give an approval or a price lookup, and so on, so you have a longer wait than being in a longer queue.  Time wasters they can be!

All well.

Chrissy
Then there is the ever present suspicion that any queue one joins automatically becomes the de facto longest queue! Gotta love paranoia!


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #193 on: March 18, 2021, 12:54:50 am »
The usual issues of being disabled and made worse by the pandemic. Still can't afford to get an up to date diagnosis to qualify for help.
Came close to suicide off and on and honestly still think about it.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #194 on: April 04, 2021, 09:01:35 pm »
Getting into yet another argument with my girlfriend about caring for my elderly father.  It's created a rift between us.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #195 on: April 14, 2021, 04:32:53 pm »
Being in so much pain that you cannot sleep for 50 hours straight.

It does funny things to you. I always thought people exaggerated when they talked about severe sleep deprivation, but no... you start to see things. Very weird things. And you feel very... strange.

It is not fun. Not at all. :(

Thankfully I got a few hours today, with a shovel full of medication, but I still feel very... icky.

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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #196 on: April 24, 2021, 10:10:18 pm »
@Sephirah, I am sorry you are suffering and sleep deprived.
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #197 on: April 25, 2021, 01:19:30 am »
I guess no one gives a care as no one had bothered to respond or reach out.


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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #198 on: April 25, 2021, 02:23:59 am »
Well you can have an air hug from me .
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Re: What made you unhappy today? 8.0
« Reply #199 on: May 04, 2021, 07:51:44 pm »
So sorry to hear that and please hang in there. Hugs
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Being in so much pain that you cannot sleep for 50 hours straight.

It does funny things to you. I always thought people exaggerated when they talked about severe sleep deprivation, but no... you start to see things. Very weird things. And you feel very... strange.

It is not fun. Not at all. :(

Thankfully I got a few hours today, with a shovel full of medication, but I still feel very... icky.
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