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Offline Adrianna40

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Did have a talk last night
« on: November 27, 2019, 06:01:46 pm »
Did have a talk last night,my wife said she wants to see me as Adrianna fulltime asking me on my input on this.I did take it well and  admitted I have always been the feminine husband loving to dress as female since I started 5 years ago.I did tell her that I felt it was getting boring wearing my male wardrobe lately loving the feminine wardrobe more.We are looking into this and meeting up with another couple like this for advice,husband went crossdressing fulltime 12 years ago and has loved it ever since.Mom and I talked about this too this weekend,she brought it up.Asked me if I would ever go fulltime as Adrianna,told her yes when it came the time.When it happens,talking doing it next year in January or febuary

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #1 on: November 27, 2019, 06:06:39 pm »
Did have a talk last night,my wife said she wants to see me as Adrianna fulltime asking me on my input on this.I did take it well and  admitted I have always been the feminine husband loving to dress as female since I started 5 years ago.I did tell her that I felt it was getting boring wearing my male wardrobe lately loving the feminine wardrobe more.We are looking into this and meeting up with another couple like this for advice,husband went crossdressing fulltime 12 years ago and has loved it ever since.Mom and I talked about this too this weekend,she brought it up.Asked me if I would ever go fulltime as Adrianna,told her yes when it came the time.When it happens,talking doing it next year in January or febuary


That sounds accepting and positive.   :)

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #2 on: November 27, 2019, 06:14:16 pm »
Wow it's so nice that she's supportive. Of course, I'm sure there's some feelings that will have to be handled still, but it's looking pretty good to explore more like you want :)

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #3 on: November 27, 2019, 06:20:56 pm »
I always have wanted to see myself as Adrianna fulltime.So far it won't be a problem where we both work at,wife brought up the anti discrimination policy which also covers LGBTQ people.My brother is for it too,he will see I will be much happier fulltime as Adrianna
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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #4 on: December 04, 2019, 06:09:50 am »
Update,it is going to happen and a win/win for both of us.Plus we do have things worked out at work,both work at the same place.Told my family last night and it did go great.Wife is happy,going to have her feminine husband finally and I am going to have more fun being my feminine side.January 1st is going to be the date I am going fulltime

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #5 on: December 04, 2019, 06:44:34 am »
Congratulations!!!  It's nice when things work out for everybody.  My wife isn't quite there yet, although she does take me clothes shopping almost every weekend.  Just no dresses or skirts yet. 

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #6 on: December 04, 2019, 08:25:11 am »
That's huge! Wife support for full time  :o Not a lot of people get to have that kind of support. Congrats :)

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #7 on: December 04, 2019, 04:18:31 pm »
Yay!

Congratulations!   :)


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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #8 on: December 04, 2019, 05:07:29 pm »
Did have a talk last night,my wife said she wants to see me as Adrianna fulltime asking me on my input on this.I did take it well and  admitted I have always been the feminine husband loving to dress as female since I started 5 years ago.I did tell her that I felt it was getting boring wearing my male wardrobe lately loving the feminine wardrobe more.We are looking into this and meeting up with another couple like this for advice,husband went crossdressing fulltime 12 years ago and has loved it ever since.Mom and I talked about this too this weekend,she brought it up.Asked me if I would ever go fulltime as Adrianna,told her yes when it came the time.When it happens,talking doing it next year in January or febuary
I’m not up to speed with this, sorry. Just out of interest how do you identify? The comment about full time cross dressing confused me.
Congratulations anyway!


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Offline Adrianna40

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Re: Did have a talk last night
« Reply #9 on: December 04, 2019, 10:24:57 pm »
I always been happy as male and enjoy wearing women's clothing.Going to reveal myself at the New Years Eve party as Adrianna,mom can't wait to see me as her new daughter.

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