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Cathy1969:
I have known my husband for 20 years and have been married for nearly 10 years. He is currently deployed and we are in the middle of a global pandemic.  He tells me 2 days ago that he wants to start taking T blockers and do HRT. He says he loves me and only wants to be with me.  I don't know if I can do this. I am beyond terrified of losing him but not sure I can be married to my husband who is now a woman. I feel disgusted with myself for even thinking or typing these words. I am so desperate.

Meghan:

--- Quote from: Cathy1969 on March 23, 2020, 07:45:12 pm ---I have known my husband for 20 years and have been married for nearly 10 years. He is currently deployed and we are in the middle of a global pandemic.  He tells me 2 days ago that he wants to start taking T blockers and do HRT. He says he loves me and only wants to be with me.  I don't know if I can do this. I am beyond terrified of losing him but not sure I can be married to my husband who is now a woman. I feel disgusted with myself for even thinking or typing these words. I am so desperate.

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Hello Cathy,

Your feelings are normal because both of you approach uncharted territory you never know before.  I guess you need to talk to counselor to figures out what to do.  Good luck

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Northern Star Girl:
@Cathy1969
Dear Cathy:
The good news is that your first posting here is in the correct Sub-Forum... "Significant Others Talk"
If you take some time to read some of the other members postings and threads in this Sub-Forum and other threads elsewhere you will find out that you are not alone with your feelings about your and your husband's situation.

I wish I could offer you words that would give you instant insight of what to do in your situation but instead I will leave it up to some of our other members that have more experience with the issues involved.

Meanwhile I do want to warmly Welcome you to Susan's Place and the Forums.   Shortly I will post an Official Welcome Message here on your thread that will give you more information that will help you navigate around the forums.

Again, Welcome!
Best wishes to you,
Danielle

Northern Star Girl:
@Cathy1969
Dear Cathy
    Please know that I am not trying to hijack your post and your questions and concerns but first I wish to Officially Welcome YOU to Susan's Place.
    I am happy to see that you have signed up as a member of Susan's Place and have submitted your first posting. 

    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you wrote about.
 
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
 
    I want to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your very first posting.
   
    There is information and important LINKS that I have included below.   You will find information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
 
Things that you should readSite Terms of Service & Rules to Live ByStandard Terms & DefinitionsPost Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)Cautionary NoteReputation rulesNews posting & quoting guidelinesPhoto, avatars, & signature images policyMembership Agreement

Northern Star Girl:
@Cathy1969
Dear Cathy:

If you feel so inclined please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to tell more members about yourself!
 
With more exposure to more members here you will be able to get more responses to your questions and concerns.

Wishing your well as you continue to be involved in the forums.

NOTE: Now, after all of this Greeting and Welcoming stuff, I will give you and your readers your thread back so you can get some answers from other members.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

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