Poll

Do you consider yourself a crossdressing transmale or transfemale?

Yes
6 (35.3%)
No
8 (47.1%)
Undecided
3 (17.6%)
Both
0 (0%)
Nuetral
0 (0%)

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Offline SailorMooo

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Questionnaire
« on: July 05, 2020, 10:57:51 pm »
I was introduced to a man who is a crossdresser, i know this is considered transgender under the umbrella.
I personally am a transfemale but do not wear dresses or skirts etc, because i am 'a perfectionist' but mainly i am conservative and a high profile person within my resident city.
I believe the term asked to transwomen is 'if they crossdress yet' but would you personally agree you crossdress. I personally am causal and just wear normal conservative clothing, but do not try and "pass" but more than anything nowadays i get the strange look, turn heads or get a gentle man in line while at whole foods (such an air head i am!), so for me I am nuetral because 'i don't crossdress at all's but for those who are transfemale, is your gender very much tied to expressing yourself by female attire or are you okay with 'whatever', i am all for skirts, dresses, especially heels, but my super kitty pretty days have not exactly arrived yet, i am about body development and being raw, so how would you describe yourself?!

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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2020, 05:30:05 am »
I consider myself female.

The fact that I spent the first ~50 years of my life as a male is irrelevant.
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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2020, 05:42:18 am »
Almost all the time, I wear shorts and a t-shirt.

You tell me, is this typical male or female clothing?

How do I answer a question that really does not apply to me?

On occasion I do dress up in typical female attire, because I am a woman. This is not cross dressing. I wear the clothes I wish to wear, which happen to be typical for my gender.




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Offline Ciara

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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2020, 06:18:17 am »
I spent about 55 years pretending to be male. I love that I have accepted that I am a woman albeit that I will never openly and publicly present as a woman..........the social and family cost would be too high, but I am ok with remaining closeted.
I love to dress in feminine clothes and wear makeup and jewellery (as in right now - skirt, top underwear, makeup, earrings etc.  :)). I feel really comfortable like this although I would not pass!! However passing is not important to me. What is important is that I can have time to myself when I can be the woman that I really am and love.

I don't however like to pigeon hole myself in categories as you mention above. I am just a woman trying to make my way through life.

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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2020, 03:01:57 pm »
I spent about 55 years pretending to be male. I love that I have accepted that I am a woman albeit that I will never openly and publicly present as a woman..........the social and family cost would be too high, but I am ok with remaining closeted.
I love to dress in feminine clothes and wear makeup and jewellery (as in right now - skirt, top underwear, makeup, earrings etc.  :)). I feel really comfortable like this although I would not pass!! However passing is not important to me. What is important is that I can have time to myself when I can be the woman that I really am and love.

I don't however like to pigeon hole myself in categories as you mention above. I am just a woman trying to make my way through life.

Ciara

I don't like labels at all, I'm just me. Am I crossdresser/TG/whatever, depends on the eye of the observer, to me, I am just me. The majority of the clothes I wear and sleep in were made for a feminine body which I don't have but doesnt stop me from wearing them because they just feel 'normal' to me. I don't care what others think of my clothes.

Would I ever like to present as a woman? sure if it were possible, but I don't see it now. I wish I had started this whole process when I was much younger and I were born in the last 20 years when this is much more common place, I may have decided to go forward with transition but I would still be me, not a label someone slaps on me to wrap their mind around who I am.
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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2020, 09:03:41 am »
If I need to add a label then be it transgender female.  I do not know if I will ever be able to pass as natal female or if I even care.   As of late I dress almost entirely in woman's clothing, but then I have not been getting out much. The exception is when performing heavy duty dirty work. I actual found myself shopping for a pink chainsaw and chainsaw chaps.
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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2020, 04:32:13 pm »
I voted no, I am not a cross dresser I am a woman. I wear women’s clothes. A cross dresser to me is someone who dresses opposite to their gender and nothing wrong with that, but if you dress to the gender you are, cis or trans then you are not cross dressing

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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2020, 04:10:00 am »
I voted no, I am not a cross dresser I am a woman. I wear women’s clothes. A cross dresser to me is someone who dresses opposite to their gender and nothing wrong with that, but if you dress to the gender you are, cis or trans then you are not cross dressing

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Re: Questionnaire
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2020, 04:39:17 am »
Remember, we're in the Crossdresser subforum, and that's who the poll is intended for.

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