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Offline MelissaCD

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Finally caving to my fem desires
« on: July 31, 2020, 08:26:29 pm »
Let me start by introducing myself, I’m Melissa.  I’m 42 and have had feminine felling my whole life.  From an early age I had the desire to wear women’s clothes and be desired.   As the years have gone by I have had experiences of dressing when I was away for work or homes  alone but was always ashamed after.  I through away 100’s of dollars worth of clothes because of my fears of being discovered only to buy more a couple months later.   My desire has grown a long with my emotions.  I feel I am ready to go down this path.  I’m ashamed to admit that I am married.   I love my wife and know she would not accept.  I know a lot of people would tell me not to live a lie and tell her but I ask that you respect that I’m not ready.
So in the meantime I will dress PT.   I need help.   Lots of questions and would love encouragement.  Love to hear your stories and experiences.
So the first question I have.   I can not hide my items at home.  Where can I store them?  Ideas? 

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Re: Finally caving to my fem desires
« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2020, 10:13:53 pm »
Hi Melissa,

Welcome to Susan's. Don't apologize for being married. I think you will find plenty of company here. Look around the forum and you will find people that have remained married and some that did not. Everyone is different and have different needs. I am non-binary and don't have much social need for clothing.

After a rough patch, my wife is onboard. I also love my wife very much. Sometimes it helps to start small and get your wife involved with minor changes. I am getting GRS, but let my wife have a say in what type surgery I am getting. I was very happy when she picked what I wanted. Only you know your wife, but sometimes it goes better than you expect.

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Re: Finally caving to my fem desires
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2020, 10:23:32 pm »
Let me start by introducing myself, I’m Melissa.  I’m 42 and have had feminine felling my whole life.  From an early age I had the desire to wear women’s clothes and be desired.   As the years have gone by I have had experiences of dressing when I was away for work or homes  alone but was always ashamed after.  I through away 100’s of dollars worth of clothes because of my fears of being discovered only to buy more a couple months later.   My desire has grown a long with my emotions.  I feel I am ready to go down this path.  I’m ashamed to admit that I am married.   I love my wife and know she would not accept.  I know a lot of people would tell me not to live a lie and tell her but I ask that you respect that I’m not ready.
So in the meantime I will dress PT.   I need help.   Lots of questions and would love encouragement.  Love to hear your stories and experiences.
So the first question I have.   I can not hide my items at home.  Where can I store them?  Ideas?

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Dear MelissaCD
    Please know that I am not trying to hijack your post and your questions and concerns but first I wish to Officially Welcome YOU to Susan's Place.
    I am happy to see that you have signed up as a member of Susan's Place and have submitted your first posting. 

    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you wrote about.
 
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
 
    I want to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your very first posting.
   
    There is information and important LINKS that I have included below.   You will find information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
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Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
 
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Re: Finally caving to my fem desires
« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2020, 10:23:51 pm »
@MelissaCD
Dear MelissaCD:

If you feel so inclined please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to tell more members about yourself!
 
With more exposure to more members here you will be able to get more responses to your questions and concerns.

Wishing your well as you continue to be involved in the forums.

NOTE: Now, after all of this Greeting and Welcoming stuff, I will give you and your readers your thread back so you can get some answers from other members.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
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The Ramblings of a Northern*Star Girl
A New Chapter: ALASKAN DANIELLE's Chronicles
I am the HUNTED PREY: Danielle’s Chronicles
Things change re: ALASKAN DANIELLE
Positive Mindset... put away negativity

Started HRT:   March 2015
Went Full-Time    December 2016
Quit my male-mode job and relocated to a very small town in Alaska in January 2017
I'm a blonde, blue eyed woman, Age 40

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Re: Finally caving to my fem desires
« Reply #4 on: July 31, 2020, 11:07:23 pm »
MelissaCD,

I am sure many people on the forums including myself have a very similar story.

Welcome to Susan's Place.

Alice

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Re: Finally caving to my fem desires
« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2020, 12:53:04 am »
Thank you for the well wishes and information.

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