I had posted a spreadsheet with information a couple months ago somewhere here. I am a gay male in Boston who is getting facial electrolysis. I am in Boston and Denise at Electrology3000(Texas) does mine. I also had one session done by Diane Sica in Wellesley- she is a really nice person but i would go back to her once in down to 3-4 hour long cleanings for entire face. Until then, its Denise at Electrology3000 for me. I found my spreadsheet with information on page 2 of these forums, so you should look for that.
For facial anesthetic, contact Dr Zivich in Boston- he can numb your face right before the electrologist works on you.