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Offline WannaBgirl2

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Where do I fit.....
« on: July 27, 2020, 05:01:45 pm »
I'm calling myself non-binary... But next week I begin hrt, so.... Am I becoming trans? Or is there another term I should be using??? Where do I post now? I feel like a triangle peg.... In the circle hole.... I just don't fit!?!?!

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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2020, 05:08:58 pm »
You are what you are.  If you are comfortable with NB, that is cool.  If you want to change it, go for it.  Good luck with the HRT.

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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #2 on: July 27, 2020, 05:59:30 pm »
Thanks Allie!!! I'm sooooo excited!!!!

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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #3 on: December 03, 2020, 06:26:21 am »
Be sure to post some photos of your transformation! <3

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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #4 on: December 04, 2020, 08:17:11 pm »
I'm calling myself non-binary... But next week I begin hrt, so.... Am I becoming trans? Or is there another term I should be using??? Where do I post now? I feel like a triangle peg.... In the circle hole.... I just don't fit!?!?!

Many people call your issues "Questioning".

Labels don't define people. You are what you are.

How do you see yourself mentally, I mean, in your minds eye? What is your self image? Most importantly, how do you want to live the rest of your life? These are the questions you should be asking yourself.

However you answer these questions, you are still you and any label may or may not apply at any given time and may change over time.







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Offline Rachel Montgomery

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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #5 on: December 04, 2020, 09:45:02 pm »
I spent years of introspection, trying to figure out what and who I am.  Part of that was due to the fact that I didn't want to admit to myself the implications of what I knew very well to be feeling.  I wanted it to go away.  I wanted to be cis. 

Well, I am not cis and I never will be.  And, that's fine.  It has to be fine, because it is the way it is and it isn't going to change.  Labels?  We are all "off lable".  Lables are used to group, and pigeonhole people.  They are a shorthand way to describe yourself or someone else, but fail to caputre any nuiance. 

I assume that you appreciate the natural consequences of taking HRT, and since you are excited, I think you will probably like the results.  Best wishes towards a more fulfilling life in the near future.
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Re: Where do I fit.....
« Reply #6 on: December 04, 2020, 11:23:26 pm »
Thanks for the advice!

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