Life is short.. Fleetingly so.. One moment your in the gush of youth. The next, looking at retirement options.. Your dead far longer. Only death and taxes are certain but for most, you won't achieve everything you want.. You'll never find that you've arrived, because its a journey ultimately to your grave.
No one has died thinking they wished they watched more TV.. Or movies or ate fast food.. No one died thinking they should of been neater or tidier
Most people go with regret
Not having spent time.. Time... Doing what they love and being with those they love..
For some of us, transitioning gender is part of that journey. Why or whatever the reason.. There is a need to transition. It, for most, increases that happiness
I don't know of anyone who has been through this and said 'I wish I waited"
I think you either know, or you don't... And if you don't then it's probably not the right thing for you.. But if you know.. Don't waste what life you have left on worrying about what you're losing... You've lost that anyway.
I am convinced that spiritually, if there is a supreme being, her attitude would be.. I gave you love, I gave you life.. Go use them...