Dear keruhi1,
What you are experiencing are well known side effects of
cross hormone therapy and certain psychotropic medications. Every medication has side effects that may or may not be undesirable.
I am a late transitioner, having transitioned in my mid 60's. I welcomed the reduction in sexual function. This wasn't my primary goal, but it was, for me, a gender confirming effect. Male sex drive is much stronger than the female sex drive. When my sex drive diminished, this just made me feel more female than before. I liked this feeling very much.
Many MTF people report decreased sexual drive when taking Estrogens. This is what I expected, so it was no surprise to me when it happened.
However, my experience is different from yours. Exactly what are your goals for taking hormone therapy? We do not discuss dosages here at Susan's Place, but a few people have reported improvement in this area with reducing the dose of their Estrogens. Of course, this will slow down any progress in your transition, if that is your ultimate goal. This is something to discuss with your doctor.
Also, I can recommend that you discuss with your doctor about prescribing something different for your psychological issues. Not all psychotropic medications have this side effect.
I hope things work out for you.
Take care.
