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Offline Michaele

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I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« on: December 30, 2020, 08:51:45 pm »
I have been wearing women's shorts for years while cycling, and have not had a lot of hair on my legs since high school.
The last couple of months as my body has changed in the lower end, my men's jeans rub in the thigh area, so I took a chance and bought some women's jeans just to try.  They felt pretty good and soft and comfortable.  I thought why can't men's jeans be like this? 
Its interesting that when I would wear my short riding shorts around town, to department stores, with my feminine legs tanned and shaved well, I would get more looks from women, than men.  I often wondered what they thought when they saw me.  But anyhow its women's pants most of the time now.  I sometimes think I'm a cross dreamer more than anything else. 
Has anyone else had the same issues with jeans? 
Thanks in advance...
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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2020, 09:08:08 pm »
Michaele-

I found the fit much better- from the way they hug your hips to the flexibility in styles, I love my women's jeans.  Skinny jeans accentuate my calves, but my new fave is a pair of flared boot-cut jeans that have the curves in ALL the right places!

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2020, 09:12:39 pm »
Yes to all, I was a little  :embarrassed: at first, but so many jeans that are men's look like women's that I figure I would not get pointed out.  I still like the long pockets in the front though of the men's lol. 
Thank you for you input  :)

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2020, 10:45:14 pm »
I've been wearing only women's jeans for at least 3 years now. I love the stretch and that they aren't harsh. Pockets are a downside. I always use a purse or a fanny pack now.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2020, 11:03:48 pm »
I struggled for a long time with this...oh yea my wallet does not fit in my rear pocket anymore either especially when I sit down on a chair.. :laugh:

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2020, 11:24:40 pm »
I enjoy woman’s jeans so much more than men’s. I grew up wearing only Levi 501 button crotch jeans. I loved the way they used to fit me. Shortly after starting starting HRT, I gave away all my men’s clothes except for my favorite pair of 501s that were broken in really well. After several months though, I tried them on one last time and they felt horrible. They were baggy in all the wrong places and too wide on the waist. They went to goodwill the very next day.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2020, 11:49:24 pm »
Thanks Susan for the input, I am currently wear Angels Curvy Boot Cut, size 12, there a little loose around the waist, but I don't like them real tight so I am happy with these :)  I could probably wear a size 10

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2020, 01:30:35 am »
Yes, I switched over as well.  At first I thought they didn't fit because I dropped my waistline to 25 inches.  It finally dawned on me that my waistline was above my belly button, not below.  That is why I had to wear a belt to keep them from sliding off.  :o

But, I'm non binary in that I'll wear anything that fits well. It is just that it is so much easier to find clothes that fit in the women's departments.  I'm keeping my 501s as long as they fit.  ;D

I bought two pairs of pants in the winter VS clearance sale.  The boyfriend cut is exactly what I wanted.  Thick fabric for winter and will be easily hemmed to fit me just right.  Short pockets as expected.  The other pair is interesting.  Very thin soft fabric for lounging around.  More difficult to hem but I have a coverstitch machine for that.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2020, 02:37:59 am »
Where I can I wear tight woman’s jeans, but where I cannot I have found the next best thing. Jeans from jeff banks (uk) they fit really well, if fact I do not know how men can wear them lol

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #9 on: December 31, 2020, 10:24:19 am »
Thank you all for the kinds words and input.  Before I purchased my Angels jeans, I bought some 501's thinking they would fit, I use to wear the all the time, but..lol they did not fit, which I was surprised cause a lot of women wear them.  But everyone is different and how they grow, which is what makes us all special and worthy.  ;)
Thanks again :)

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #10 on: December 31, 2020, 02:18:08 pm »
I’ve been wearing only women’s jeans for a couple of years now. I shop carefully and have found a couple of brands with longer front pockets. My men’s jeans are rough and gross.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #11 on: December 31, 2020, 02:47:53 pm »
Now that you mention it, I do have one pair with longer pockets in the front, thank you for reminding me.. :)  But my wallet still does not fit in the back when I sit down, or driving too  lol

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #12 on: December 31, 2020, 03:09:13 pm »
Time to start shopping for a bag or purse!

Boyfriend cuts are designed to look like male clothes but are cut for a feminine figure.   Though sometimes there is a lot of artistic license and they just look cute if you have the right figure to wear them.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #13 on: December 31, 2020, 03:34:59 pm »
Thank you Maid Marion for the excellent advice, I don't know if I'm quite there at that point yet, lol but I do have a fanny pack that I wear, its just hard to get use to the change, since I've carried my wallet in my back pocket for well all my life.  I do carry it in my coat pocket or down in my sock, lol which is ok,  but you are correct. :)
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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #14 on: December 31, 2020, 08:07:14 pm »
I stopped wearing men's jeans years ago. They didn't really fit my hips and butt. I don't really have the right curves for womens jeans, but they fit better than men's jeans. The last couple of pairs of men's jeans, while loose in the waist, split the entire rear seam in one shot. I love the stretchy, softer denim but miss the pockets.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #15 on: December 31, 2020, 08:14:53 pm »
When I wear jeans, it is now always women’s jeans.
Not sure why I still keep one old pair of guy jeans, probably because a woman “liked the view.”

Guess I am the sentimental softy type.  Silly woman, I am.


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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #16 on: December 31, 2020, 08:21:58 pm »
I keep some men's jeans for yard work, which tends to trash them -- so the thick rough fabric is appropriate. Ha, I was going to say "they deserve the abuse" but that would be rude to the clothes.
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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #17 on: December 31, 2020, 08:27:05 pm »
I keep some men's jeans for yard work, which tends to trash them -- so the thick rough fabric is appropriate. Ha, I was going to say "they deserve the abuse" but that would be rude to the clothes.


That makes a lot of sense for yard work and dirty work.  Might as well use them if they are handy.

If you go to some “farm stores” you can find thicker women’s jeans for working in the fields, barns, and gardens.

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #18 on: December 31, 2020, 10:06:43 pm »
Thank you all for the kind words and input, I actually would buy women's pants, then return them, buy them and return them, I guess I was feeling guilty, and thus finally decided to go full bore. This went on for 1 year or so, and but as my bottom and legs started to become more feminine, I decided to wear the women's.  I still have a mens pair for just the same reason, to do oil changes, and outside dirty work, etc.  :)

Thanks and Happy New Year to all :)

   

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Re: I surrendered to Women's Jeans (Finally)
« Reply #19 on: February 25, 2021, 01:34:40 am »
Time to start shopping for a bag or purse!

This is the next step...pockets that just aren't practical!

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