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Vercingetorix88:
I came out to my wife which simply made her feel more confused.  I want to explain how this feels but the words fail me.  She has strong a rational mind and simply saying I want to be woman doesn't seem enough to help her understand. 

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Northern Star Girl:

--- Quote from: Vercingetorix88 on April 01, 2021, 12:17:19 pm ---I came out to my wife which simply made her feel more confused.  I want to explain how this feels but the words fail me.  She has strong a rational mind and simply saying I want to be woman doesn't seem enough to help her understand. 

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

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@Vercingetorix88
Dear Vercingetorix88L
    I wish I had the answer to your question that for many of out members is a common issue.  If you look around and do some reading around the various Blog Threads and other threads here on the Forums hopefully you can gain some insight from other members here that have experienced what you have described when dealing with your wife.

    Please know that I am not trying to hijack your post and your questions and concerns but first I wish to offer you my warm Welcome to YOU here on Susan's Place.
    I am happy to see that you had signed up as a member of Susan's Place back in 2016, and somehow we missed providing you with the important information and Rules that apply here on the Forums.

    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you wrote about.
 
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.

You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your very first posting.
   
    There are informational and important LINKS that I have included below.   You will find information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
 
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Northern Star Girl:
@Vercingetorix88L
Dear Vercingetorix88L
ONE MORE THING......
If you feel so inclined please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to tell more members about yourself!
 
With more exposure to more members here you will be able to get more responses to your questions and concerns.
Wishing your well as you continue to be involved in the forums.

NOTE: Now, after all of this Greeting and Welcoming stuff, I will give you and other readers the thread back so that the conversation can continue on.

Again, I am glad to see that you have joined Susan's Place.  I will be eagerly looking for your future postings around the Forums.
Danielle

Confused1:

--- Quote from: Vercingetorix88 on April 01, 2021, 12:17:19 pm ---I came out to my wife which simply made her feel more confused.  I want to explain how this feels but the words fail me.  She has strong a rational mind and simply saying I want to be woman doesn't seem enough to help her understand. 

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

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Hi Vercingetorix88,

Welcome to Susan's. I think you will find this is not unusual. As Danielle said, this is discussed in several threads. Take a look around and join in on the conversations.

Hugs,
Mike

Maid Marion:
My wife carefully watched me and concluded that I was quite feminine.
I had amazingly good diet and exercise routines that allowed me to precisely control my weight.
I showered every day.  These days I also shave body hair every day.
I enjoy shopping.  I enjoy fashion, the art of looking good.
Also quite masculine in that I can do gardening chores with a high tolerance for hard work than most, male or female.
I can fix all sorts of stuff.  I have machine tools and a decades of experience building stuff.
Though I leave cars and the heating system to professionals. 
I have gotten better at throwing out stuff rather than fixing something as I have better things to do with my time.
That is just my list.  Everyone is different.

Marion

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