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stella-cd:
Very few people know I like to cross dress.   My wife and her sister knows.  Her sister only knows becasue she lived with us for 5 months.  I have a couple female friends who know.  Other than that I keep it secret.  I do go out in public in short shorts and women's jeans.  My legs are shaved.  So I am sure people suspect.  I wouldn't feel comfortable going out in public in a skirt or makeup.

I am curious what level of secrecy other cross dresssers on here have

RandiL:
Hi Stella,

My Dad had a cousin named Stella and everybody loved her.

I'm always skeptical that shaving your legs is even noticed by anybody. My own legs have always had only barely visible hair. I can barely see it to shave. Lots of men shave their legs, and these days even their torsos.

I used to feel shame about what at the time I called cross dressing. I have since come to terms with that and realize this is just an expression of my inner being. Nothing to be ashamed of.

Now you may feel it necessary to hide this for other reasons, and that's ok. But I hope you can eventually get past hiding.

There is one gay bar in my city that is trans and cross dresser friendly. They do weekly drag shows, and it's a fun time to dress up however you like. You can change there if you need to.

There is also a burlesque troupe and their shows are another opportunity.

I do a lot of hiking, biking and running, especially on trails. That became a prime outlet for dressing as I pleased.

I hope you can find your own satisfying path.
Randi

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Ciara:
I have been cross dressing since I was a very young boy. I dressed in my sisters' clothes and my mother's. My older brother caught me once when I was about 10 years old and said little. I think he just put it down to childhood play.......he didn't know that I yearned to be a girl. When I was in my teens my father very nearly caught me. That was a lucky escape for me as he was old fashioned in many ways and would not have been impressed with me.
I'm now in my sixties and nobody knows that I cross dress or have transgender thoughts. I am 100% in the closet. My wife would be devastated if she learned that I carried a secret for the 40 years we have been together. I sometimes think it is sad that I have never been able to share my love of being feminine. It would be so nice if we could both dress up and be two ladies together but that's how it is.
I've never gone out dressed but I often go out wearing a bra, underwear, subtle makeup and a unisex garment. Nobody notices except me and that makes me feel good  :)

stella-cd:
RandyL - There is a place like you descibe not so far from me.  I looked at the gay bar website and they have drag shows where the performers strip down to thongs.  I would love to go there some night dressed in heels and booty shorts.  I do feel like people stare at my legs when I wear short shorts.  The link is my legs in heels



Ciara - that's too bad you can't share with your wife.  Many men are in that situation.  My wife doesn't mind my cross dressing but it's really tame around the house - just booty shorts, leggings, and painted toes mostly.  I would like for my wife to help me with makeup more.  She has done a little on me but never full makeup.  Anyway - I feel very fortunate. 

RandiL:

--- Quote from: stella-cd on April 12, 2021, 08:35:46 am ---RandyL - There is a place like you descibe not so far from me.  I looked at the gay bar website and they have drag shows where the performers strip down to thongs.  I would love to go there some night dressed in heels and booty shorts.  I do feel like people stare at my legs when I wear short shorts.  The link is my legs in heels



Ciara - that's too bad you can't share with your wife.  Many men are in that situation.  My wife doesn't mind my cross dressing but it's really tame around the house - just booty shorts, leggings, and painted toes mostly.  I would like for my wife to help me with makeup more.  She has done a little on me but never full makeup.  Anyway - I feel very fortunate.

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Stella, you'll fit right in at the drag shows in heels and booty shorts. People go there to have fun and let loose. Your legs look nice. Enjoy the stares

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