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Offline SmoothCat23

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Hi from Switzerland
« on: May 15, 2021, 10:02:22 am »
Hi all,

I'm from Switzerland, I'm 46 and I did most of my transition in the lasts years (FFS, SRS and finally VFS). So far, I'm doing fine with my transition. But here I am now, because I look for your experiences in VFS (I had a Wendler Glottoplasty here in Basel, Switzerland, in 2018). My VFS result is not good. At one side, I get gendered as female on the phone, which is great. But my voice is hoarse and the voice is "thin". In conversation I have to repeat myself very often and that is very stressful.
An insufficient vocal fold closure was diagnosed and also a small scar was found. They treated it, but it did not change to the better, yet :-\ Just to be complete, I do a lot voice training (still do), I met several voices coaches, but it did not help really.

Anyway, I already see that there are a lot of topics here around VFS, so I will dig in there. Probably also open a questions myself later. I'm curious about your experiences with hoarseness and what you tried out to better it. I'm also thinking about a revision surgery. Since a while I'm not sure anymore, if my local doctor (he is experiences in Glottoplasty here in Switzerland) did a good job or not. I know, that the voice box is a complicate matter. I don't want to point fingers. I'm in contact now with a voice clinic in Germany, but I can only meet them at the end of this year.

One thing I learned having problems with your voice is, you need to have a lot of patients!

Nice to meet you all,
Nicole

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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2021, 10:24:17 am »
@SmoothCat23
Dear Nicole
    Thank you for Introducing yourself and telling us a little about yourself. 

For many transgender individuals, especially for those that are early in their "journey" .... dealing with voice issues can be very difficult at times and as you aptly stated, it takes patience.   
This is something that many members here on the Forums can identify with... thank you for sharing.

I also see that you have just posted in the 
Voice Therapy and Surgery   subforum  Topic: Vocal cord injections
Hopefully you will be able to gather more information there that will assist you in your journey.


    I wish to now Officially Welcome YOU to Susan's Place..
 
    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you wrote about.
 
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.

You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your very first posting.
   
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Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
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Offline ChrissyRyan

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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2021, 04:06:46 pm »
Hi Nicole!


    Welcome!   


Chrissy
Be a good example of good behavior.  Always be kinder than needed.  Be tender to others.  You are as beautiful as the thoughts you think and the words that you speak.   Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding.  Knowledge and action shown without love is not impressive.  If you look for the good in people you will find it. Healthy relationships are so important to good living.  Serve others.

Good living, joy, unity, love, and happiness can come from following these practices: Never let selfishness or conceit motivate you.  Regard others as more important than yourself.  Do not limit attention to only your interests, but include the interests of others

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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2021, 03:29:52 am »
Hi

Welcome to the Forums.

Best wishes
Margrit
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Offline SmoothCat23

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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2021, 01:55:36 pm »
Hi all and thank you Danielle!!


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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2021, 01:08:52 am »
Hello Nicole,

Berlin, Germany here.
Best wishes and good luck.

Kind Regards
Angelats

Offline Peeptoe

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Re: Hi from Switzerland
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2021, 03:13:21 am »
Hi Nicole,

warm greetings! i don't want to do any advertising for anyone, but i doing Ken Tamplins vocal training for years and he has also voice repair course. It helped me quite a bit.

best wishes from Munich,
Robbie