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Moving, Abandoning Everything


Ive been on nebido since 2016/2017 and though in male levels, i look the absolute same. A few times i told doctors im transitioning, they say they didnt even know i was born male (mtf) and im ftm.

i live on an island (trinidad population 1.3m) thats transphobic and i might be the only ftm here, with 2 doctors only who are willing to treat transgender. i hate every aspect of my life and now im almost 30 and still closeted to everyone. i have 0 friends and one in miami.
i plan to go miami next month to continue hormone treatment , a different type than nebido since thats the only one i had in my country. i dont really want to come back.

i wonder if someone like me can apply for asylum, and i wonder if anyone can help me.a transwoman was killed 2 or 3 years ago, and according to my doctor there arent other transguys here. i tried applying for h2b jobs but never got through, theres no agency in my country, and i dont see other options.

in the end, i really have given up and exhausted my options. my other plan is to not continue this life and im willing to do anything to not come back here.

Northern Star Girl:
Dear Raeden:
I am so very sorry to read of your difficulties in the country that you now live in.
Certainly moving to Miami in the USA will be a better situation for you as you continue
in your transition journey

Regarding your desires to apply for asylum ... my best advice for you would be that you should talk with someone in the US Embassy either in Tobago, where you live now, or next month in the USA once you get to Miami.

I am wishing you well and hoping that you can get the help that you want to have.

HUGS and best wishes,

Northern Star Girl:
Dear Raeden:

I noticed that you became a member of Susan's Place over 6 years ago back in 2015.... and that you have never been officially welcomed.

OH, and another thing....
If you feel so inclined please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to very briefly introduce yourself.
With more exposure to more members here you will be able to get more responses to your questions and concerns.
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    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you are.
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say.
    I want to now warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
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    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your most recent posting.
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Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

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Applying for asylum in the US can be done, but you must show proof of an immediate danger to your life. Apply at the Embassy in Trinidad for a visa to the US. This is very important because many people are being sent back to the home countries if they arrive without proper documentation.


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